Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Relationship advice about girlfriends ex's?

basically im asking a question about my girlfriend who has been in 2-3 serious relationships before,





basically the problem is she has told me she misses her ex, this is a person she spent over a year with in a serious relationship which then led to a casual one with just sex between them for a few months, however she moved away to uni and the boyfriend ended the relationship...





it's been 7 months since she had a boyfriend and we've been seeing each other for about 2 months now, however a few days ago she told me whilst drunk that she misses her ex, however states she doesnt want to get back with him and loves me now...





i dont know what to think, sure ex's should hold a place in her heart because at one point they shared something special, but im not sure weather i should feel hurt by the fact that her love for me isnt enough to overcome how she misses her ex....





i dont know what to think.....she says i make her feel special, and love her for who she really is, but dont all boyfriends do that? it's just words to me that are said throughout every relationship... its just like the ';i love you forever'; then 3 months down the line you hate each others guts over a breakup....








im just confused as to what i should be feeling if she misses her ex but says she loves me.... maybe only time can heal that for her as she grows closer towards me,





any advice would be seriously appreciated, thanksRelationship advice about girlfriends ex's?
If I were you, I would break up with her, because she is soon to break up with you for he ';space';...just do it now, but in a nice way..let her know that you are a challenge too...she misses her ex because woman are like children ';they want what they cant have';....break up with her, dont speak to her unless she speaks to you 1st..let her see you are not an easy catch.

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