Monday, August 23, 2010

Relationship advice my slutty girlfriend?

I have been talking to this girl for 7yrs and we recently broke up for a period of 5 months, we are back 2gether now but i recently found out that she had been having one night stands with a bunch of different guys, 15 guys in the course of 5 months i only had 1 female,which was a constant girl friend, she even acts differently and also when we have sex its because she say its a reward for treating her good which hasnt been much, she say things like she'll make me wait 2 months before she give me any again, but yet and still if she wasnt with me she would give it up easily to someone she barely knows i thinks she's a whore and i want to break up with her now, all my friends think i should break up with her, i want to, its just that i love the whore and cant seem to let go, how do i let go. please any advice would be greatly appreicated.Relationship advice my slutty girlfriend?
you can't change the way you feel about someone, if you really don't want to be with her straight up tell her how you feel. when you do break up with her be sure to tell her you don't want to see her again because you don't want to waste your time.Relationship advice my slutty girlfriend?
I think you gotta go easier on her for her sex history- I doubt you'd have an issue if you had done the same.





Chances are she rebounded hard from you and lost her self esteem she tried to make up by sleeping with all these guys (if she indeed did).





But her using sex as a reward is wrong. You need to lay down your expectations clearly, but be aware she's probably trying to salavage some of her self esteem by making you wait.
No no no,you cant love this gal, you seriously dont deserve this for Gods sake! just give yourself another chance and you will meet a decent woman who deserves your love and the love making not just a whore who feel it for the sake of her own good,what about you,your feelings your dignity pliz let go and tell her to the face that you cant go on and its final.


make the hard decision and make your life a happy one with a deserving woman.
It sounds like both of you have a lot of psychological problems. I think you should decide what you want to do with your life and if you want to stoop that low or if you are better than that. I hope you don't have any infectious diseases.





She is a loser. Are you going to hang around a loser or do you have higher grounds to walk?
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!


dude lol


forget her shes a **** lol


15 guys in 5 months?


3 guys a month?


lets say thats 2 guys every two weeks give or take.


thats a guy a week


wow


thats gross


';so does it have any tread left or is it like throwing a hotdog down the hallway?'; %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; stuie griffin
You love the whore? Yet you belittle her by calling her names? Do you hate women? I think you do. You seem abusive and narcissistic, not to mention stuck in the middle ages where women were not allowed to be as sexually free as men.


You deserve to be single.
i do not condone her actions


but, she has been honest and upfront with you


you seem to thrive on it


why do you want to change things??





you say your friends think you shoudl break up with her


but do you???
You now wat its going to hurt getting over her but time makes things better trust me you deserve better no one needs people like that in their lives, its only going to hurt you on the long run if you stay with her :( sorry i know it hurts
an interesting question... in so many ways. She doesnt sound very nice!


I suggest you imagine 'your baby sister' asking you the same question....and do what you advise her to.
Just break up with her, and then deal with the depression! which can usually be settled by a good drink :P ! x
DUMP HER ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD.
this is call the crying game ,she sounds like the Tip that need to hurt people to feel good about her self..good luck ..p.s give her my web address. hell what one more !
There are lots of girls like that, which is ok if you're one of the random hookups, but not so good if you're the boyfriend. You don't need that in your life. Eventually she'll leave you again, even if she's not cheating now. Find a new girl and forget about her. I know it's not easy, but things between you and her will not get better- they will only get worse.





Not gonna give you any for 2 months? Tell her that's ok, I'll get it somewhere else. Then show her the door.





Get rid of her now before you end up raising some other guy's baby. If she gets pregnant, don't sign the birth certificate, and demand a blood test- she WILL claim that it's yours.
Your Relationship sounds Mutually challenged .... or in big Trouble !





Note i said Mutual.... well , lets start with you , because you wrote


on here and we don't have her side of things. YOu continue to call


her '; '; certain names..... Let me tell you, no matter what your friends


have been working into a frenzy to make you break up with her, YOU


have no right to call any girl such names!


And further, by doing so ...... you make it very clear you don't want her


in your life. So really, why even the question on here ?





As for her, if she is as bad as you say ...... R e A l l Y ..... then don't


make excuses.... there are lots of other girls who would treat you like


gold ! Ask yourself , do you like to have somebody dictate to you when you can eat, love , breath, ........... and so on .


I am already guessing the answer, your best bet is LEAVE.
Ponder on this one :





Which sucks more - going out with someone who sleeps with a lot of men but doesnt feel any emotional connection to them OR having a relationship with someone who only sleeps with one other girl but has constant contact with her (rebound/f*buddy with emotional attachment)?





And who started to sleep first with another person? You or your girlfriend.





The real question here is which is more important to you - the exclusivity of your sexual relationship or your emotional fidelity?





I麓m stressed you have the nerve to call your GF a **** but you are also doing the same thing but with a possible emotional attachment.





Talk to her about this. Open up to why she does it and be honest also to her on how you feel about the other girl.





Trust is important in a relationship. Work on that one. :)
man it sucks when you first hear it i dumped my girlfriend for a day and she did that reason why she said to numb the pain im sorry but thats wrong no matter what and 15 in 5 months i just say break up with her its going hurt but if she did that you will get over it trust me you dont want to stay with a women who did that then tell your kids if you ever get married that its wrong to have sex that much you will be a whore when your wife did it just break the relationship off sorry man
hmmmn... interesting there, but really you should ask yourself-

as to why you sound so driven to make an end to your relationship?

Is it due to the fact that she's been around the block several times? or is it because all of your buddies want you to break it up with her?

i just do not understand how you can let the smallest factor have such a grand reflection towards your romance life!

thus, you still love this 'whore' so why allow your guy friends to basically tell you what you should and shouldn't do??

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