Relationship Advice.?

I have been with my BF for over 4 years. I think I am a really good girlfriend despite my short temper and constant aggravation, but I think after four years and how much effort and dedication I put into US I can see why I get mad and stuff.





I work really hard, and I work more then one job. My BF is less motivated when it comes to work and it is not because he is lazy, he just doesn't like his job and doesn't know what his calling is, so there are times he just does not go to work, but his boss does not penalize him for it, so he does not have a lot of discpline with work because of it.








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For the last year my BF has been going out for guys night EVERY single Saturday unless something he absolutely has to be at is going on. And I don't mind this--I always give him my okay, but now Saturday's sometime turn into Fridays as well or if we have something planned the guys sometimes get invited-or yesterady we had a BBQ and he went to the movies and saw somethign we were going to see together. For example we were on our way home from a week vacation and literally as we were pulling in his friend was pulling in our driveway right behind us.





He is not really saving for our future, instead going out a lot.


He does not take iniative with the bills--he just gives me the $ if i ask for it.


He gives me a hard time about going out if i have something planned during the week, although usually every saturday when he goes out with the guys i am usually working at my second job and then have nothing to do afterwards....





i am 23 and so is he and we have been together four years and he really is a lovable sweet guy my family loves him, but he has said recently that he does not ever want to rush getting amrried he wanrts to do thigns that right way and it makes him feel pressure when ppl ask when we are going to get married--basically giving me the impression that it is not going to happen for awhil





but i want to start thinking more about a real future, and marriage and babies, etc.......








idk..Relationship Advice.?
i know that he really likes you but every guy needs a boy's night out, don't try to stop him cause it'll depress him, let him go out with his friends and he'll love you for it