so i have a friend that i have known for a while now and i like her. we are really close to one another. lately the past couple of months we hang out for a consecutive amount of days and then give each other some time apart. so anyway. she's been in and out of relationships for the past two years. she just recently started dating this guy but now she is backing out of it. she tells me that my opinion next to her parents matters the most to her. we are close enough to the point of where we can talk about almost anything. we are always laughing around each other. it seems like the feelings may be the same on both sides but i'm not sure. i want to tell her how i feel but i don't know how it might end up. also she has told me that she doesn't know what she would do if i were to leave because that topic has come up many different times and she doesn't like the idea of me leaving one bit. also when she comes over to my house we end up hanging out really late or when i go to hers and usually we end up cuddling or falling asleep next to each other. also lately she's been setting herself up so that i can complement her and i do. she's also told me that she's physically attracted to me. we also trust each other very much. also we have been texting each other lately like crazy almost every hour of every day and sometime to say goodnight or call to say goodnight and talk for a bit. and i've been helping her with something big in her life that she's going through and she always tells me thanks and that she appreciates the fact that i'm still around for her. i don't know what to do really. i mean when i first met her we tried but it never really worked out. and we were able to work past the akward stage and get to where we are now. so any advice would be appreciated. also if you have any questions for further info of the situation just ask. any advice again would be greatly appreciated.Relationship advice? can anyone help me out here?
My only question is that:
Is it worth it? Are you willing to put your friendship, which sounds AMAZING, on the line for a relationship?
Just think about the consequences before you rush into anything. What if things don't work out? Will you guys go back to the awkward stage and get over it? or maybe this time you wont... She may just think of you as a really good friend or a brother, so it would be weird if the feelings weren't mutual. That would mess up your friendship...
But from what you've said, it sounds like you guys are both mutually affectionate of one another and obviously comfortable with each other. If you are willing to put the friendship on the line then go for it. Maybe it's worth the risk.Losing your best friend for a month worth of a relationship, maybe maybe not. But only you can know that ;)
Go with the Flow, life's what you make it. Who knows she might be the one you spend the rest of your life with. You never know until you take a chance.
Remember:
Today is the most important day of your life, for yesterday no longer belongs to you and Tomorrow is but an illusion.So, remember this well:
If Today is well-lived, each yesterday will transform
into a joyous memory and each Tomorrow into a vision of Hope. 鈾?
Hope it helps=] Cliche as it sounds: Follow your heart!Relationship advice? can anyone help me out here?
well .. it sounds to me that you both really have great feelings for one another, but your afraid that is someone says something that it will ruin your wonderful friendship. If you really like her or maybe even love her i think that you should always tell that person how you feel... no matter what. life is way to short to constantly be saying to yourself ';what if';. If they know for shure that you will always be there for her and each other no matter how it turns out everything will be just fine. I think from the sounds of it that you both have such a great bond that it would take more than her not returning your feelings to break it, but only you can decide if she returns ur feelings. but don't wait to long ... girls , no matter how much they might say they don't , they want to be swept off their feet ... but we cant wait forever ;o) i hope this helped - Rachel
be more assertive... you are practically there, i could just push you a little bit and you would be there already.. seriously shes like on the hook already just reel it in :D take her out somewhere.. who knows? maybe something nice will happen. BE CONFIDENT! ur practically already her boyfriend, just without all the lovey dovy stuff.. just go for it. it will be easy, most guys who ask for advice are just hopeless and they aren't even close to the girl they like, but obviously you are very close to this girl and it should be easy. Its like trying to put a golf ball into a hole 1 centimeter away. just do it... and dont hold back :D
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