I've been dating someone for two months now. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship (we live and hour and a half apart), and so we only see each other once a week (we take turns driving to see each other). Generally we talk on the phone three times in between dates. It's been going okay so far, and I enjoy his company, and he seems to enjoy mine. But I'm wondering if I should ask him if the distance between us bothers him and if he thinks we can sustain a possible serious relationship in the future given the distance. I'll admit, I also really want to know how he feels about me, because right now I really have no idea. And I'd really like to know! Should I bring up the long distance issue or just let it go for now? I don't want to freak him out, but I also don't really want to continue dating someone long-distance if he isn't that into me. Any advice?Relationship advice (especially from guys)?
It's really hard for us guys to maintain a steady relationship being really far from the person we are starting to fall for.
We do like talking about it ASAP other than hearing about it later in the relationship.
And it does get pretty lonely at nights and boring if the phone is our relationship not body wise.
If I were him, I would pick you up, go spend a whole day with you and talk about it over a calm place.
It's either end it or start it.
Good luckRelationship advice (especially from guys)?
A long distance relationship is always difficult, busybee, but the issues can be overcome. The main issue for me was: would she leave where she lives to live with me, or would I leave where I live to live with her? In my last relationship, the answer was no for both of us. Issues like this are what you should consider before taking the relationship any closer to commitment.
wait another month and then ask :) and when u bring up the issue make sure that he knows that u're not trying to break up with him cuz he could misinterpret ur reasons to bring it up
what i would be is not to bring it up...but bring up solutions to it for example talk about ';why dont i sleep over today or you sleep over at my house'; if its because of jobs or somthing like that its understandable...as for the does he like you thing just ask him if hes into a serious relationship right now and if he approves of this one...also dont let him answer on the spot tell him you have to go and to tell you tomorrow that way he'll have time to actually think about it!!
Might as well ask him how he feels. If he is interested the distance won't matter unless it matters to you. 2 months is a good time to see where you are.
bring it up, if he cares he will try to resolve it somehow
well this is a hard question but if i where you i would ask him to marry me already haha
I understand where your coming from...
I know your prob' afraid your gonna freak him out by being straight with him, and asking, But I think you should come clean and ask him, what he thinks???
I reckon he's prob thinking the same thing 2 be honest!!!! If you dont ask your head will be wrecked, wondering where its going with you guys...
Pluck up the courage and ask Him - Definitely ('',)
one of the most important points of a relationship is communication. you should tell him how you feel and what you think about it. if he's worth youur time he won't mind talking about it. an hour and a half really isn't bad, it'll help you enjoy the time you do get together and give you an appropriate amount of time apart. being together too much ruins most relationships. the fact that you're that distance just means you have to maintain communication and be expressive of how you feel.
and be clear about it. don't make it seem like more than it is, just say you've been seeing eachother for two months and you just wanna know what he thinks about things. do it over the internet or something so you'll both be able to collect your thoughts properly in the conversation. i know that sounds lame, but people can freeze up in person and not know what to say because they feel on the spot or under pressure.
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