Divorce him and tell your mom if she thinks so much of a man that abuses you, then it should be no problem for him to move in with her as he greatly disappointed you! Relationship advice please?
Sweetie, your mom doesn't have to live with someone who tries to hurt you in an effort to bring you back down to your old, depressed self - and if she saw what was going on, I don't think she'd want you to, either. Until you can try and explain to her, though, muster up some of that ';I don't care what everyone else thinks'; courage from when you got married in the first place and get yourself out of this situation.
You should know the real reasons why your husband change his attitude towards you, then work to improve the situation from there. You may have to insist on him going to a counselor to manage his anger. In the mean time, you must continue to improve your self-esteem and weight control to make yourself more attractive to him, this may help??
well u should have a down to earth talk with your husband about why he's acting like that. if that doesn't solve the issue then try to see if he'll see a councilor because he might start doing things that will seem like nothing compared to throwing things at u. and if it still hasnt worked out then u shood get a divorce, ur mom will understand that u left an abusive and upsetting relationship
Seriously think about whether or not you want to stay married to this guy and if not, forget about what your mom thinks, she doesn't have to live with this individual who is obviously becoming abusive. If he's throwing things at you now imagine what he'll do later. Get out now while there is still time.
uh uh. this isn't about your mom or anyone else but you. you have to do what you think is best for you. if he is abusive, then leave. no if's an's or buts. just do it. you are valuable no matter what you weigh and no weight gives him permission to throw things at you. he is just lazy and doesn't want to put forth the work for you as a valuable woman. dump his laziness!!!!!!!!!
your are worried what mom will think of you if you divorce that abuser you are married to? who cares what she thinks, you are the one going through all the anger and all the hurt,leave him leave him now I'm sorry he doesn't I know what you are going through.
Therapy...he is threatened by you getting into shape...good for you! You need to be healthy and happy.
He has some serious anger issues...this is abusive behavior and DO NOT TOLERATE IT! When he acts this way...leave. If you have to leave more than once, never ever go back. Read the papers, honey...women get KILLED. No one ever thinks it will happen to them.
Read Taking Care of Me by Mary Kay Mueller
You must do what is best for you, not your mother. She might be disappointed but if he is abusing you she should be proud of you, having the strength to leave.
Hun youre not married to your Mom..... Try counseling with your husband. He may be angry because you look so good %26amp; he may be afraid of losing you. He shouldnt be angry, and he has to learn to deal with those feelings.
Your mom would be disappointed that you left an abuser? Because that is what your husband is. Leave him.
FACE IT!!! IT WAS A MISTAKE TO GET MARRIED SO YOUNG AND YOU GOT MARRIED FOR THE WRONG REASONS!!!
Get out, grow up and get on with your life.
sounds like an abusive relationship! Get out before he hurts you!
come over to my place, i got what you need to cheer you right up. We can then give him something to really be mad about.
hi i was married at 21 my wife was 20. its too eary to commit to something big. i mean everyone thinks they will together forever when they get married. I mean no one would get married if they think they'd get divorce later on!!!!
People do change. i think ur hasbant is jelous that u are loosing wheight. like u thought no one would want u. he feels the same way. if u leave him he wont find anyone. thats making him frausted and thats what making him angry. just sit down and tell him how you feel. hope it works out for u.
didnt work out for me. yep i let my family down i was separated just after 7 months of marriage. good luck
First you need to ask yourself and him if maybe he fears losing you now that you lost the weight. You would be surprised at how much this could be effecting your relationship.
Second, if you want to leave your marriage, this is your business. Your mother may very well be disappointed but it is not her marriage! Our moms are always going to be disappointed in something we do, may as well be this.
Try to see why he is truly acting this way. And try to work it out. But if it is a lost cause, don't feel guilty to your mom about it.
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