Monday, August 23, 2010

Relationship advice please?

Hi i have 2 kids and have been with my partner for 3 years.





last nite me and my partner had a big fight and today i just dont no what to do for the best.





he was great at the start but now he is so childish i mean his m8 has been coming down every other nite and they have been sitting playing games online till like 2 3 in the morning leaving me to sort the kids out.





he came home from work at half 5 last nite and his m8 was here 15 minutes later so i didnt even get to get my dinner nor did the kids get to see there daddy.





i said to my partner about this and he said im being stupid and selfish





i feel so alone lately he doesnt let me go out and he would flip if i was leaving the kids to him all the time





what should i do i am really thinking about leaving him i just wnna do what best for my 2 little girlsRelationship advice please?
O god this sounds just like my relationship, im 32 weeks pregnant and just moved in with my partner about 3 months ago, every thing was ok at the start, but all he seemed to do was play his stupid games every Time i mentioned it to him, we fought and didn't speak for a few days but he still continued to play the games while i was stuck watching tv in my room. i had to do every thing about the house i asked him to empty a bin and 2 days later it still wasn't done so when i wanted something done i had to do it my self. Im hovering 3 flights of stairs at 32 Weeks pregnant and he thinks that's ok for me to do it. i just got fed up with it and asked him to leave, i didn't think he would of went but with in a few hours he was gone. all i done was cry cause i was worried about raising a baby on my own but i know that it will be hard but i cant do it exp with out all the hassle. I never thought i would like living on my own but i do its great, we have talked and we have decided to give things a go but not live with each other he will be there for his baby, but the two of us will have space and i think that's a good thing! he can play his games and do wat he wants to do and i can do the same but we are still together. Do you love him??? xx xxRelationship advice please?
i think you need to sit and talk to your husband i feel he is running from his duties and this not at all good for man to do it especially when he is married and got kids. and about your relation you will be knowing every thing i suggest you to talk to your parents and with your husband in a matured way talk to them in cut to cut question ( i mean your conversation should be just question and answer) listen to them first then you take your time and then reply and take a dissuasion. all the best good luck for your future.
i dnt kno anythng coz i dnt hav kids but ur 2 lil girls deserve 2 hav a dad who is there 4 them %26amp; he needs 2 kno this!! i thnk 2 that by havn his mate ova alll the time he may be dealing with a lot of stress at wrk or whatever %26amp; coz guys dnt seem 2 kno how 2 communicate there feelings (instead just havn these mate dates where they dnt hav 2 tlk simply just bond) maybe he is getn away from these ';feelings'; by bonding wiht his mates but not realising that he is leaving u guys out, hence thnkn ur stupid %26amp; selfish coz u dnt understand, apparently were supposed 2 b mind readers. but he needs 2 kno that while its fine 2 hang out with his mates %26amp; let go off these ';feelings'; that he is leaving out u %26amp; more importantly he's 2 little girls....

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