Hi. I am 15 years old and need some help. I have never had one relationship in my whole life. I am nice to girls, but only my 'cute' friends get the girls. I'm just not good looking. Also, I'm pretty shy and I'm looking for a serious relationship. I need to know where to find girls who will judge me on personality not looks, so that I can find someone like me. Sorry if i sound corny, but this means a lot. ThanksI need relationship advice?
aww.. that's cute, but just keep being nice. most girls only judge on looks but that's not all they should judge on personality should be like 90% and looks like 10%. but just keep being nice and the girl that god has prepared for you will come along in life and you'll find '; the one '; good luck. =]I need relationship advice?
send me a pic and il tell you if your ugly or not.
and mybe go on one of those dating sites or like a chat room??
email me
there is somone out there for you as there is all of us...when its time it will smack you right in the face..you will know..dont rush it your young still...she will find you
Maybe try having a little more confidence in yourself. If you can't find some thing in yourself that is good looking, who will?
Teenage years are very weird. It feels like you will be alone forever, but you won't. Have faith in yourself.
Here's the honest truth......
A lot of girls are superficial at this age. Looks are pretty much all they are concerned about - Their looks and your looks. I'm sure I'll get a lot of ';thumbs down'; for that but man, it is the truth.
I want to ask you something. If a porker came up to you and said in a manly deepish voice, ';Let's go to the movies this weekend'; would you?
If your answer to this question is ';No'; then you need to realize that you may have just let the best thing that has ever happened to you get away.
One thing I think you need to address is the fact that you are shy - You said that you wished that girls would judge you on your personaliy but man if you don't show if they won't be able to.
I'm 30 now, I remember that being 15 was also hard for me. Hang in their dude, for me and plenty of others I know, the geeky, quite, shy nerdy guys always end up with more in the end.
ooooooooooooh boy.
Trust me, you want your first relationshp to be as meaningless as possible. I went for the meaningful first relationship and it teared me down to shreds.
I know your gonna ignore me, but im telling you thats what your setting yourself up to.
Here's what i think i think that you should be yourself and go up to a girl and say ';hi'; there's someone who's out there who likes you but you don't know it.
I thought that nobody likes me since I'm not a pretty girly girl type but this guy likes me and i didn't have to try to be someone els I was myself and he liked me for it.
There is someone out there who likes you but you don't know that and just be yourself and when the right time comes she be there.
:)
I think you should let a girl come to you, but looks aren't everything. I'm 13 and a girl and I know that. Lots of girls like guys who are funny, and romantic, so there's bound to be SOMEONE who will date you. Besides, if you have certain interests, you can join clubs, and maybe meet girls who like the same things as you do. *art clubs, guitar, etc* Hope this helps!
man its this way oways girls go around for about the first 30o years or lless of there life giving away there bodys to idiots then nice guys like you and me show up as kids and are best freinds we secretly have a crush that we dont want to run the relationship or dont have the ballls to mintion soo we dont get girls lol till later
At 15 there truly isn't so such a thing as a serious relationship. There are boyfriends/girlfriends, but kids your age lack the maturity and the consistency, because you are always changing and growing. Relax. Don't rush yourself to get a girlfriend. What are you looking for that is so horridly important? Girls your age are usually shallow because they want to like all the guys their other friends like, the ';cute'; guys... but it's the boys like you, who is not the typical cute guy, who will grow to be the guy every girl wants to date because you will know EXACTLY how to treat a girl.
If you really want a girlfriend, don't make it serious. Have fun with exploring relationships until you're older. Dating, in its most basic definition, is pretty much like trial periods to find someone to marry. You are not looking for marriage, so make it about having fun and exploring girls and getting to know the kind of girls you like and what girls like and don't like in relationships. Don't think long-term.
Just talk to girls, be their friend, make jokes, and girls will come to you. If you come on too eager, it scares them away. Be chill. :)
Good luck!
You're 15 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Try not to grow up too fast and enjoy it now and in the end you'll find that MRS. RIGHT or she will find you.
nice ,sounds like u want someone that like u 4 who u are and understands u, how awesome. Lets see now.. Im 14 (and just happen 2 be a girl so I'll give u my best advice. I know u may be shy (Im also extremely nervous around guys I like) But you have to step out of ur comfort zone once in a while, in gym try to do the best u can in sports,be yourself.
1. If you tend to fall into the ';friend zone';, this is especially important. Girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Actually, some girls do like that, but usually for all the wrong reasons--either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who like to dominate guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, and goals.
2. Make an impression. There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill or talent that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too.
3. Flirt. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact. Smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or you've got something stuck to your teeth. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment.
4. Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what you want to leap out of bed to pursue. Ask her what she really loves in life and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Most importantly, listen.
5. Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles and chocolate) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique, and find/do things for them that only they would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know--better than anyone else in the world--what makes her unique.
6. Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your elbow so she can link arms with you as you walk together. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. Rub her hands when they're cold. These are all polite ways to get a little closer without being creepy. Still, if you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.
7. Compliment her. If you really like this girl, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills.
8. Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is the classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that'll make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not dangerous or illegal, of course).
9. Ask her out. Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you--make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something that you're proud of. Or, express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. Or, just go out for lunch or a cup of coffee and get to know her better.
Im sure u will find true love!
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when you be sweet but not desoperate and kinda play hard to get .And ur 15 u got lots of time ivbe been with my fiance for 3 yrs now im 19 he 21 im his first gf and LASt lol soo... Just dont rush into things
Let me start by saying you don't sound corny. The best thing you could do is, just be yourself and don't be in any rush to get into a serious relationship. I'm sure your just as cute as your friends are and you really shouldn't even give that a thought. Just continue being sweet and kind to girls and trust me; when the right one comes along you'll know. Enjoy being you and having fun and enjoying the people around and before you know it, there she'll be.
Aw. Well in today's society you gotta REALLY search for girls who judge you on personality. Like me! Yeah but...I think you just need to open yourself up a ot more and not care about what other people think. You needa take one good look in the mirror and truely see yourself and you need to be that cool funny guy you really are.
if girls are juding on looks ( which a lot do ) then they're not good enough for u...just be yourself and one day a lucky girl will fall for u ( srry i no its corny...but true )
good luck!!! : )
you're too toung.. ms. right will come your when at the right time, at your right age.. dont worry, im 23 and still hasn't found the right guy.
i think you're trying to hard, let mrs. right come to YOU.
They usually will appear out of nowhere and you'll be fine when the time is right. Your 15 and I'm 18 and I still don't have one. Take it easy and you'll be fine.
try looking the way u think u look good act nice and she';ll come to you!
Most girls are accepting of appearances if they truly like a guy. Just start by being friends but don't touch her a whole lot because it makes some girls uncomfortable. Be friendly and crack jokes to her, and as you get to know her you can even tease her gently. As she warms up to you, she may start to crush on you. If you sense that she is flirting, try flirting back a little bit. Don't let shyness get in the way, give yourself enough credit to know that you are a great guy which is a rare find in high school. That alone is enough to get you a great girl. Just remember always be respectful and friendships can easily turn into something more.
your question seems to be from bottom of your heart, the girl ur having crush must be the one who knows you well, she shouldn't see your wealth,your looks is her choice, u have to be more friendly to her,take a good CARE of her ,,never expect a sexual relationship without knowing her idea,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, be more specific about yourself,and never lie to her ..............................if u follow this ,i am sure that u will really win her heart .......................good luck buddy,%26amp; forget not to vote me
A: ugly girls, life IS NOT fair, and thuss..u shall not finndd what u seek.
i totally get what you mean there, but the truth is that girls your age will almost always go for the ';hot'; or popular guy, unless she is a really exceptional girl. i'm sure you don't want to hear this, but wait until you're an adult, at which point women care a lot more about personality and a lot less about looks.
just find a girl who you think has the same feelings as you do and ask her out! it never hurts to try and if you dont try then you'll never know what couldve been. there are so many girls that are just waiting for the rite person. make a move!
look man if you are trying to score just relax and be confident around girls. if you aren't trying to score then still be confident no matter what you look like. girls are people too they get shy.
My advice to you: Just be yourself. You'll find someone. Sure she might not be the greatest looking person ever, but it's not the looks that matter. I've found that most of the time, the ';hot chicks'; are bitches. No offense to you ladies out there, but about half the time, it's true. Ultimately, just be yourself.
just wait some one out there is for you
A great man once said ';money is the ultimate aphrodisiac';
As long as you have money, girls will be attracted to you no matter how ugly you are. so just plan on getting rich..problem solved..I'll take my nobel prize now.
well do something unexpected dont always kiss up to much.just fool around tease themm little by little because most girls look for the cute guys but if ur fun to be around and u tease them a bit they will pay more attention to u
