Relationship advice neededddd?

My boyfriend goes to college parties a lot.. and he recently saw this girl at one of them that he hasn't seen in a long time. She commented him on Facebook saying ';It was good seeing you'; and he commented back saying, ';It was good seeing you too, i'll message you my number.. tell me when you're going to be around here again.';





I asked him about it and he told me his friend Mike was trying to get with her and he was just helping him out.. but he searched for her Facebook himself.. I know this because he accidently typed in her name on the status part instead of the search part.





Am I overreacting? Should I not care? Relationship advice neededddd?
no because u want to know but it sounds like he started back talking to her and thought u would never see her page it s ok though because it may be harmless they were old friends and he knows his boundaries and if u trust him don't worry but for him to lie about his friend that means he feels guilty and has something to hide but if he didn't seem like he was lying don't trip use your best judgment Relationship advice neededddd?
Talk to him, get this out in the open, tell him how it does not appear to be as casual as he says it is.





Then also do a self-check on your relationship. Is there any reason that you should feel jealousy? Does he keep anything from you? Are you invited to go to these parties with him, if so why are you so concerned? You could be over reacting or you might be reacting to something that is really a red flag to trouble or problems in your relationship.





So talk to him and get this out in the open.
First thing first, has he committed to u, r u both committed to each other, or r u just friends.


It appears just a casual innocent social encounter, but u never know.


If u r committed, u must react, u must care, but too much, too soon, could be read as jealousy and could do a lot of damage to your tender and young relationship, that needs nurturing. Be alert and read the coming signs, and be prepared, but pretend and act as if u know nothing.
you have a right to be interested in your boyfriends life. just not totally completely. ask him what friend want to get with her and suggest that you can help out. but if he immediately turns down the offer without even thinking about it, then start being a little suspicious. and i know this sounds cheesy, but honestly, go talk to him. sit him down somewhere just you two and see if he confesses, or if he is telling the truth. but think, if he loves you, he wouldn't cheat on you. maybe suggest that you want to meet this girl and you think that she will be a cool person to hang out with and if he turnd that down without thinkg about it, then start really being suspicious. and if this continues, somehow find her number and call her up.


but dont be bitchy about any of this.


cause if you are, chances are he will dump you.


play it off like you have no clue whats going on. he think that he will be getting away with cheeting, if he EVEN is, and youll be able to catch him
Your reaction was normal! If it's Mike who want her then why not search for her himself, does this Mike doesn't know how to do it?Then, why would he give her his number, why not give mike's number instead? I don;t know about you but I think his starting to flirt with this girl.
Talk to your bf about how you feel and about what you think. You might be overreacting but then again, you might not. Why don't you try hanging out with him during those college parties?
i would stay cool, calm, %26amp; collected before making any sudden moves. its probably innocent, nothing to be too concerned about.
Probably want to start looking around for a new relationship because it appears that is what he is doing..
A guy having a non-intimate female friend is not cheating. Pull yourself together.
i would watch my man if i were you. talk to him and tell him how you feel, if he blows you off, he aint worth it anyways.
you are crazy...
Well if you don't think he will cheat on you and is a good man then I would not worry about it. Why does he want to keep in touch with her what is their history. Is he a playa, you say he parties a lot does he do this alone. If he does why would he be doing this if you are around. Is this normal for you guys to party alone with friends. If you are a couple then you should be a couple. Party as a couple go out as a couple. If you are his gf then don't you think that he should want to be with you more that just partying with his friends and if he does go to parties don't you think that he should be taking you along. Hope this helps