Relationship advice. please help. 10 points!!!?

Okay. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 4 months. We've been engaged before, and now we've been pretty much living together since August, so I feel like we're not even dating anymore. Anyways, lately I've made my own friends, because mostly we'd just hang out with my boyfriends' friends, and I'm about to go to school, and I really would love a separate life away from my boyfriend. Last night, I was playing video games with my friend, and after flirting all night, we started holding hands. Eventually we kissed. Not make out, just like 4 total. I don't know what to do, because if I told my boyfriend he'd be crushed. But I can't help but feel like, my boyfriend and I rushed into things too fast and now we're totally different. I'm only 19, I have a LOT of life left to live, and I don't know what to do.





Help? Thoughts? They're all GREATLY appreciated.Relationship advice. please help. 10 points!!!?
i dont know that i would let him know about the kiss you gave your freind but i do think you need to find a time to sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with im about your relationship before too much more time goes by. its only fair to him and yourself. good luck.Relationship advice. please help. 10 points!!!?
uh oh. well i'd say talk to your boyfriend about the whole rushing into things thing and see what he thinks. Yeah don't think it'd be such a great idea to tell him about the kiss with the other guy..but i guess you know that. hmmm well just sit down and think things through, think about how much you love your boyfriend and how much you care about him. You obviously DO care about his feelings as you don't want to tell him...as it was just a slip, right? If you really don't think there's a happy future with him just don't let it go on longer if you know it's not working or you aren't happy. But i do think you should talk to your boyfriend. or maybe do something fun, go out with him and see if it can be like old times. or suggest staying somewhere else and coming to see him or stay with him for a day or two at a time, that way you'll look forward to seeing him. sorry i can't help more, but hope i helped a little. Good luck in whatever you decide to do anyway x
Maybe it's time to break it off with your boyfriend...It sounds like your just not that into him any more. You have alot of life left to live and there's many more fish in the sea :)
SWEETIE. :)





i have been in this position before. :]





okay. you can't control your emotions.


your young, so this is totally normal.





don't think sneaking around is okay.


also. if you find the right time, just come clean.





tell him how you have felt. :]


it's difficult, but you have to do it. say your sorry, but can't take it.
The biggest mistake you can make is to move onto another relationship before ending the one your in now. What your doing is avoiding the pain of being alone no matter how you justify it. If you tell him you want out of the relationship you will do your self esteem a world of good. Otherwise you will see yourself as a cheat and liar.Take care of yourself and leave him before you get too involved with someone else. It is very fearful but you will mature and grow as a person if you face those feelings rather than using someone to medicate the pain. Hang with good healthy friends and family to transition out of the relationship.
i'ts time to tell your boyfriend the truth. it may crush him, but the truth always comes out. dont let him hear it from somebody else.