Relationship advice......?

ok im in a serious realtionship with someone and i need advice to make us grow stronger and healther! im very controling and i never want him to leave the house cuz i think he will find someone different, but he promises he wont....i need help on how i can be able to feel comforable with him leaving i trust him but i just dont wannt him to leave me...so plz let me no what i can do.Relationship advice......?
Sounds like you need a little ego boost! Just know that he is with you for a reason! There's obviously something about you that he loves and adores, otherwise he wouldn't waste his time, right? Trust in that and put a little trust in you.





Maybe you need to take part in some of your interests a ltitle more. Take on a hobby or learn something new that you've always wanted to learn. Get out there and meet people yourself. You love your b/f and he loves you, but you both need to be yourselves... individuals. You should each have your own interests and partake in things that make you feel good about yourself. Once you feel good about yourself, you'll have no trouble understanding what your b/f loves so much about you!





Know that you rock! If you didn't, why else would he be with you?Relationship advice......?
You just have to trust him, you have to let go, because he will get resentful after awhile that he cannot be himself. You have no right to contol other people. The more you control him, the more restful and ironically he'll find another woman then. Just chill. If he goes find something to do for your self and don't worry about it. Don't you want to be missed? He can never miss you if you are always there all the time. Don't you want to miss him and have that nice moment when you get to see him again and talk about how your day or evening went? You need to find some other friends or hobbies to occupy your time.
You need to begin having people over for social visits. Get used to seeing him interacting with others. Shake off all those nagging thoughts about his leaving you but focus on one, if you hold him too tight, he'll run away. Check yourself and focus on your good points and realize that he's lucky to have you.
Time for some counseling to dig deeply into the dynamics of why you are controlling.





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