My boyfriend and i have only been together for about six months and when we first got toether he acted like i was the world he knew that i didnt like it when he smoked pot so he stopped and acted like he was everyhting and i moved him in after only a few months.... right when he moved in he compleatly started neglecting me and started smokng pot again and playing video games all day. today i said something about him smoking first thing in the morning and he freaked out and packed his stuff in his car and said he was moving back to his dads i freaked out pulling my hair out and crying and hitting and i just compleatly lost it.... he went to work and i cried all day but deep down knew that it was probaly for the best. after he got off work he called me and said that he wanted to come back but that i would have to deel with him not trying and accept him the way that he is. i was so desperate i siad fine. now i feel so stupid and i know i've made a mistake and i hate my life and him and i dont want him here but i am afraid to be alone. i dont know what to do. he alreay unpacked his stuff back in my house. i'm unhappy with him but cant live without the fantasy of love. HELP!!!
OH and he is 20 and i am 23Relationship advice?? PLease help me?
You can't change a person. Pure and simple. You should have taken more time to get to know him for being the stoner he is. Don't settle for less and work on your own self esteem. There's a reason you settled for someone like this.Relationship advice?? PLease help me?
You both need to grow. You need to define happiness and joy on your own terms. It is time to discover the benefits of self definition. Personal comfort is very important in life. When things or people attempt ot compromise your happiness, make a note.
Self appreciation will separate you from anxiety and drama. Others must respect your desire for achievement and accomplishment.
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