Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In the beginning when we met we both agreed that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For the past 5 days she has become distant all of a su. Intially she told me just to give her a little space.(Not cheating) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what is wrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to and loves me.. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 5 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pushed back when everything was great. Any advice would be great. ThankRelationship Advice... HELP!?
Sounds like the two of you don't communicate very well yet. Two months is not long for a relationship. Perhaps you need to try and talk with her about your thoughts and feelings.Relationship Advice... HELP!?
RUN this girl has issues. You seem to be a nice man that should not have to put up with this type of treatment from you girlfriend. You can find much better. If you do not listen to my advice you will wish you did later. This is not going to get any better.
You mention that your girlfriend started birth control, that could play a major role in her mood changing. I would track the dates that she started using the birth control and see if her mood is congruent with the start date. Also, like she said give her some space and let her know that when she is ready to talk that you will be there for her. When you do talk be honest about how you are feeling and open to her feelings as well.
Best of luck!
i think that it's dawning on her that she's in a serious relationship and everything's going great. i think that scares her cause she thinks it's too great and she might end up hurt. you need to assure her that you're here for her happiness and love and you'd never hurt her even if you tried. don't rush her just be there for her. good luck!
Yes, hormones do cause problems.
Or maye you have been too pushy or bossy? Don't be a dictator - decisions are to be made together.
kid when woman has problems she does not usually tell you when it's bad so find out yourself or tell her to be honest with you and whatever the problem y'all deal with it together and you will always be there to support her...
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