Relationship advice please!?

I'm currently in my first real relationship. It's only been a month %26amp; a half, but it already seems like it's not as good as it used to be. At the beginning of our relationship, he used to do so many nice things for me. He took me out to dinner to meet his friends, drove over an hr. to pick me up %26amp; drive me home over our Spring Break while my car was in the shop, take me out with his friends %26amp; to spend time w/ his fraternity brothers, %26amp; he'd come visit me at work. Now I feel like it's a chore for him to get dinner with me, %26amp; we have designated days to have sleep overs, %26amp; it feels like it's all we do. %26amp; he only answers my texts %26amp; phone calls half of the time (I usually only call 2 - 4 times %26amp; send him like 4 - 8 texts a day). I try to do little things to show I care about him like giving him back rubs massages after a stressfull day %26amp; stuff. How can I get him to return the favor, %26amp;/or hint at him that I miss %26amp; want him to do ';special things'; %26amp; suprise me w/o annoying him?Relationship advice please!?
Well this is quite a hard task because it should come from his heart if his heart is there. It is never good to have to say something about this because it either makes him kind of like ';wow she is a bore and already acting like a wife'; stuff that dumb guys always say or it makes you wonder, why do i have to remind him of this maybe he does not care?





What i would do is, just ask nicely when you feel he is ignoring you or just not the way you want him to be, is ask him ';is there something wrong';? If he says no, then just say, well i do not want to be a nag but it just feels like you are kind of distant lately.





See what he says! Take it from there.





Either way it will not be the end of the world!





I wish you the best of luck.Relationship advice please!?
If this is your first relationship, you expect everything will be beautiful forever but things change and if you push this relationship too far, he will get tired and you will get sad n worse and everything will finish. Just take it easy and let your guy breathe. Don't chase him so much, you also do things to keep yourself busy and hang around with your friends. Relationsips also need oxygen and space. Best wishes.
not to be rude or perverted. please nobody take this the wrong way, but you might want to think about taking your relationship to the next level? Just proposing. It seems what you do is your fair share of adding to the relationship. it sounds like he isnt pulling his part to make it a successful one.
i believe it is way to early for the fire to have gone out. This usually happens several months after. if it happend so early maybe you should move on instead of trying to please and hint him. but if you dont want to move on, dont call him for a day. that might give him an awakening. then just talk to him. it should not bother or annoy him if he really cares about u.
just ask him if everythings ok...





TELL him how much you care, don't hint it to him...





theres not much you can do, because you ARE a girl, and the guy is supposed to show effort too... with relationships its a ';two way street'; (both ppl have to show effort)





if he acts like he doesn't care, then hes not worth it, but he just might be really stressed out.





goodluck!
give it some time, he may just be through some bad days, if it presist, talk to him and ask him what's wrong he must convince you that it doesn't concern your relations with him.


if it does, then you know what to do.
you can't get anyone to care or ';return the favor';. if he doesn't on his own, there is nothing you can do. find a more appreciative guy who lives closer and move on.
Hun, I think you're expecting too much of him. You've gotten used to him treating you and maybe you should look a little deeper and appreciate.
Maybe you are a little 'full on' and its making him back off a bit? Try backing off a bit and see if he responds to this.
If you're in a relationship and not married, its a good chance that they guy is taking you for a ride. Guys, not all of them but a good portion of them do not want a lasting commitment. That is why they choose to have a relationship outside of marrige... there is no commitment that has to be made that way. SO he can do what he wants when he wants and leave you hi and dry when he wants. He isn't in it for a commitment. He's in it for the feeling he is getting and that isn't love. I would give it some hard thought as to getting out of the relationship altogether for one that has commitment as the ground floor of it.