Relationship advice that needs 20 characters lol.?

First, a bit of background on the current situation.


My husband and I got divorced three and a half years ago, after 10 years of successful marriage. I will not go into the details, but it wasnt error on either of us that the marriage failed.


It was both of us not communicating and a bunch of other things that just built up over time.


Anyway, my children are older (daughter is 23 and my son is 27) and there isnt any problems with them freaking out about me replacing their father.


We all have very good relationships between one another. Very good communication now lol.





The current situation is this.


I finally met a man that I might be able to be happy with!


He is about my age, and living in Poland though at the moment.


He was born in Poland and is planning on coming to America later this year to see the sights around christmas.


Now, here is my dilema, would it seem foolish for me to go off and have a good time with this man, leaving my family and friends behind while he is here?


Would it bee foolish of me to put some serious commitment into a relationship that most likely would be conducted through email, snail mail and phone calls?


I am just curious as to what others think about a situation such as this.


Yes I am going to see him come this Christmas, but should I do more to entertain the fact that maybe someday I will have a relationship with him?Relationship advice that needs 20 characters lol.?
i think that at your age, you guys would be mature enough to have a serious relationship. even if it is long distance.


but most of the time, they don't work because one person would usually give up and become attracted to someone else while the other is still faithful.


it depends how much you guys are willing to sacrifice for your relationship





and of course it isn't foolish to go out with him. your family would understand, right? it's for your happiness. i believe most kids want their mother to be happy. (: