I need relationship advice!!?

I was sort of going out with this guy from my youth group and he was from a not-too-great background. He got thrown in juvenile detention last year and I don't know when he's getting out. I really don't think I want this relationship to continue, and I really don't think my parents would want us to go together anyway. The problem, though, is that he is totally in love with me. I don't want to hurt him, but I'm tired of having my life restricted by what he's done. I really need help. I want freedom from this.I need relationship advice!!?
If he really loves you, he'll let you go.I need relationship advice!!?
try to express you're feelings in a subtile way. I know it is not easy but you can at least try. And maybe it is better for you to just not have a boyfriend at all at the moment. You can have freedom from this just try to talk to as many possitive people about you're isseu, and maybe you can come up with a solution. Be strong!!! E.S. Ong The Hague.
Look after yourself - the best advice you can ever have. Obviously he's in love with you - he's bound ot say that because he wants to keep hold of you as your his hope while he's inside. Ask yourself how you honestly feel and act upon it - it's the only way!
tell him you dont think the relationship is a good idea anymore, ur feelings have changed but u still love him as a friend or something just so he takes it a little more easy than just calling it off! No matter what u do he will be hurt but someday he will understand why u done that becus if he really loves you he wouldnt want you 2 be unhappy! Wish you all the best huni
Tell him if he really wants to be with u he needs to get his act together, n that u dont want to be with him until he does. Tell him that when he gets out he can prove himself to u, n u'll consider gettin back with him.
at the end of the day trhe only person who truely looks out for you is YOU. if you dont wish to court this lad then call it a day. go and see him and tell him - if this is possible otherwise send a letter. good luck :)
you should tell him what you want out of it ..





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You don't want to be in this relationship so the best and only thing to do is to end it!





Just be honest with him. Explain how you feel, how sorry you are and that its best it ends now rather than further down the line IE: you're saving you both from more pain.





Say you've had time to think about things since he's been away and maybe you are better off as friends. Cliche i know. But sometimes the old lines are the best!





If he is in love with you as you say then you are gonna be breaking his heart but he'll get over it eventually and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. As long as you nip this in the bud quickly and honestly now.





Whatever you do don't drag it out!
just dump him and get it over and done with


or he could come and stalk you if you do then you have to worry about seeing him again
Honesty here is the best policy ...........its not easy but try and do it in a ''lets be honest and friends'' sort of way ....... theres really no other way of doing it.
I really think you should be honest with him but tactful, just tell him you like him but don't want a relationship with him. I think you should cut these ties with him, you are still young and don't want this following you around. To be honest i think you have already decided what you are going to do, you just have to be strong and a little selfish i suppose and think about yourself for a chnage. xxx
Yeah, think most of the people on here are right. You need to walk away from this before it gets too deep. He clearly isn't the one. You don't want to have someone who has been in juvenile detention anyway. If he is on drugs too for example, he is probably somewhat screwed up inside. I think, although it's the hardest way, you should dump him face to face. If you can't do that, by a whole-hearted letter. Get your parents/friends to help you write it if you need to. If he doesn't take it well and when he comes out of detention, he starts stalking you, you should report it to the police and mention he's been in juvenile detention before, that would give them more reason to see to your protection. You shouldn't have to be restricted by him. At the end of the day, you will both move on, get new partners and wonder why you liked each other in the first place. Good luck.
short answer to you is walk away NOW b4 its 2 late 4 u
Just tell him ur at a point in ur life when you dont want to be tied down. Ive heard that one before.
he's not ready yet. tell him to get his life together. there's to many free nice men out there.
I think you should just break up with him but make sure that you tell him y so he doesnt think is just so you can go with another guy. trust me I had a boy friend that went to juvi to and even though we lasted for a hole year i couldnt take it any more and had to break up wit him . N ow we go to the same school and we get along just fine.
NO is the word.
i kno it sounds a bit selfish but u need to fink about ur self... u cant carry on in a relationship that u dont want to continue... in my opinion it would be worst to lead him on.... let it burn... jus be honest and explain how ur feel good luck!!
Tell him that what he is doing to his life is effecting your relationship. If he promises to try and change his ways then maybe he can be good for you and if he turns into someone goos then your parents maybe will like him to. Just be honest. If he refuses then say you know what I'm done because you shouldn't have to deal with that.
Write him a letter telling him your feelings. This will give him time to get used to the idea and any hurt or anger that he may have will probably subside in time.
Then tell HIM. You can't end a relationship with someone without hurting them. That's a part of life.
you know really this man is no good for you,get yrself out and about and try meeting someone new babes,it'l take yr mind off him good luck anyway