ok im really confused as to what to do with this situation. this guy and i met in august of this year and we had a thing and we liked eachother and all that. the big problem is tho he lives 40 minutes away from me, and i cant drive but he can. lately i have been thinking whether i should keep liking him cause hes amazing but when we are texting he takes forever to text back and doesnt show that much emotion or interest in me. is this guy just over me? should i move on? what should i do?
another problem- his friend likes me too. but he doesnt know it.RELATIONSHIP ADVICE NEEDED!?
Move on, honey. He's just not that into you. RELATIONSHIP ADVICE NEEDED!?
Well, I'm just assuming that you are a young person. Please do not take offense. As you grow older you will realize that we almost always answer our own questions. You wrote...';but when we are texting he takes forever to text back and doesn't show that much emotion or interest in me.'; This is your answer. I have been in my share of relationships and I had to learn a lot of things the hard way. If he is not showing interest in you then you can bet that he is over you. Don't waste your time, energy, or effort in pursuing this relationship. You will only be hurt in the end. Good luck.
i know a friend in the same situation where she lives near fairfax and he lives in belflower but everything is ok between them the thing is that she's not very faithful to him. if the doesnt show any interest try talking to him and if he doesnt understand the way you feel he isnt worth your time he should be dumped or worse. but seriously if he has a car and isnt using it to come and visit you thats one sign towards tellin you that he is just not the guy you should be pursuing
maybe you should let it slip that his friend likes you. then he'll get jealous and pay more attention to you!
but really it's not likely to work. long distance relationships are hard to begin with and especially hard when you're young. it's very likely that he has his mind on more conveniently located girls. maybe you should stop concentrating on him and take another look at the boys closer to you.
If your the one showing most of the emotion and effort. I would say stay back and see if he comes to you. Why throw yourself at him if he shows not a lot of interest? Your worth more than that right? About the friend. I wouldn't dabble in that. Would you want someone to turn to your friend instead of you? Treat others as you would want them to treat you. Take care and I hope this helped. Follow your heart and you will be fine.
for the first question i think u should just go and ask him to his face if not leave it be he will make a move after a little bit if not just go out with who ever you like:) if he makes a fuss over that then well i dont know tell him you moved on or get back with him. the other question i think u should wait and see what happens first
ok he isnt igmoring u. guys sometimes dont take the time to txt back to anyone. also txting doesnt have emotion. because u guys cant c eachtothers faces u can say, do, and feel watver u want wout that poerson noing. so im sure that he is busy
and come on! hes only 40 min away im sure ulll work something out!
well its kinda hard to say
because the best thing u can do is talk to him. if he doesnt care if will be easey to tell. but if he is the amazing guy yo say he is then you should fight for what u want.
on the other hand if u are saying that u can jsut get over him how important is he truely to you?
and o yeah dont date the friend. never turns out well.
best of luck to you.
You should get away from both of them. The driving thing, is nothing. That would work out. However, his lack of interest and passion is a HUGE red flag. Walk away now. Walk quickly. Don't look back.
If he doesn't come back looking for you showing love, passion and interest, move on.
The problem is, you shouldn't date. Just find good friends. The best choice for a mate is your best friend. If you can't even have really good guy bestfriends, you WONT be able to handle a boyfriend or husband. Well long enough till he gets what he wants at least..
Just move on...if he want you, he'll come running back like a little puppy. Playing around with a humans mind is the worst thing you can do. Good luck!
TALK TO HIM , COMPARE THEM BOTH , USE A QUIZ ABOUT GUYS IN MAGS GOOD LUCK WITH THE GUYS
move on if you dont like him find someone you love!!!!
just get someone new!!!!
Talk to him, and ask him how he feels,
if he doesn't feel the same move on.
if he does, try to make it work.
im not good with relationshiops...just so you know
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