Relationship advice-i'm a bi-guy been led on by a straight guy.should i tell him to get lost?

i'm a bi guy of 35 whose had a crush on a guy aged 28-but i have never had physical sex wioth anyone gay or straight--he is straight,has 2 kids and is divorced.he sent me a text in june saying he wants to practice oral sex on me and would like to try out guy to guy stuff with me.he is in a relationship with a new woman who he says he loves,wants to marry etc,so any contact with me must be a one off.i feel led on but would agree with him practising on me,but every time he wants to visit there is an excuse or cancellation,then an excuse of ';i camn't do this two timing of my girlfriend'; from him-this is broken by 10 days o silence then texts at 2am saying he wants to go through with seeing me. my emotions feel played with and hurt because i'm been messed around.i told him this,either do it or do not contact me as its messing with my head.he then goes i'm so confused,i love my girel,but i want you for one night only.


i do not feel he is ever going to do anything ever-do you think he really is confused,deliberately trying to hurt me or if it is a genuine straihght guy fearing trying out a gay/bi sex act.to me it feels hurtful but what can i do to get him to actually do the deed without feeling emotionally hurt all the time by his 7 times of cancelling then leading me on again.


please advise if you can-its tearing me apart.Relationship advice-i'm a bi-guy been led on by a straight guy.should i tell him to get lost?
From what you've told us, it seems to me that he is genuinely confused and tied up with the whole thing. I bet he has never had any intentions to hurt you, and that if you let him know that you are upset, he will probably realize it for the first time and be apologetic. From here, i think the best thing to do, as in most cases with relationships, is COMMUNICATE. This way there is far less confusion, and everyone can become more clear on the matter.





So, don't take it to personally, i think he is going through a lot right now; I mean: kids, divorce, girlfriend issues, hints at homosexuality, let alone everyone else's feelings. Anyway, hope I helped! Good luck with it! Bye xxRelationship advice-i'm a bi-guy been led on by a straight guy.should i tell him to get lost?
u like him, u really really like him, that's why him doing this is hurting u so much. and his constant cancelling can be due to fear..he is afraid to venture into the ';unknown'; with u..he has inner turmoil and instead of working it out first privately and then letting u know how he finally feels about it..he is taking u on his own emotional roller-coaster..and this can continue for a while..





and even though u want him, do u really think u will survive a one night stand with him? i always tell my girlfriends if u emotionally involved there is no way u can have sex without attachments..u going to be crushing yourself and that is what im telling u..even if he does come around telling yourself just having him for one night will be enough..it very rarely ever is..Let him go
Just say ';Take it or Leave It'; if he keeps changing his mind he is ******* around or is too awkward to do it, like if he never had gay action bfr.


ask him.
You've never had sex before?


HIm texting you at 2am was probably because he got into a fight with his new girlfriend. This guy is playing with your heart. Dont get attached. He's too flakey. It will only hurt you even more if you do get together with him. And you will be wrong for doing that to his girlfriend who doesnt know whats going on. You said you'd been hurt before, you shouldnt do that to her. You sound swwet and like you really are hurting from this. Let him go. You should treat yourself with the love and support you are giving him.





Good Luck!!
He sounds like a man whore.. Do it if you want to get some sexually transmitted disease..





But do it for good memories.. have fun