Relationship advice please?

No rude answers pleaseRelationship advice please?
Hello Babiigirl,


Your question is not an easy one. It seems that you and your boyfriend have a good relationship. But what makes a relationship work is trust. Now you seen to have doubts in your present relationship because of your past relationship. One thing that you should understand about love. If you truly love someone, you might have to let that person go. I know that is hard. Cause you want to be with the one you love. I can see that you don't want to be hurt again. Well, if that is the case then you should not be in love with anyone. Love is always about the risk of being hurt.





If you want to try to make this work, you have to step back and see the big picture. Eventually the truth will come out. It always do. Love is about forgiving. That is also hard to do. If you truly love this person you have to forgive. If forgiving is not enough then you have to let this person go.


As for me I am truly in love with my woman and I will give her no reason to feel jealous or have no doubt of my love for her. If this person is not like that, I believe you will find one that is. Remember to focus on your love and how you truly love. If a person feels the same then you two will be made for each other. No matter what anyone says, you will have that true love.





Sorry for making this too long.





Good luck. Be patient. If love is not in him. You will find it. It is all up to you.Relationship advice please?
I get a little confused when you start describing your friends, sisters, mom, ex boyfriend regarding who said who but at the end of the day, why would his ex girlfriend look out for your best interest?





If your boyfriend says he didn't do anything, then you should give him the benefit of the doubt. Next time he hangs out with this girl ask him to let you come. If he is hesistant that means something is up, if he has no problem with it then everything is ok. If he introduces you as his girlfriend that is even better, if he kisses you in front of her you're in the clear.





Look for his reactions when you talk about her, and follow your intuition. Good luck.
It sounds like you want to believe him because you love him, but your instinct says differently. Don't just believe the people he is closest to, because they will protect him at all costs. Look at the facts. Question those.





Why would he be hanging out with other girls without you around?


What exact reason would the best friend's mom have to lie?


Has his ex ever spoken to you like this before? Did your boyfriend tell you she wanted him back?





If you hear a lot of excuses, no straight answers, or he says people are trying to break you up, then look out! 9 times out of 10, its a lie. He's cheating and trying to stop you from further investigation by stalling.





And remember, people lie with a straight face all the time, that's why they invented lie detectors. You will get the truth, though. Everything in its due time must be revealed, you just may not be ready for it.
You will never know for sure unless you catch him. It is the only way. People will spread rumors for the stupidest reasons. Also trust your instinct.