Relationship advice muchos needed!?

I have been with my partner for 5 years, first things were great but as years have gone on he has changed. Always moody, snappy and critical of everything. I am getting very tired of it all. I have had a dream to go to australia for years and wonder if i should just do it. Problem is i still obviously care very much so for my boyfriend and dont want to end up regretting my decision. I am 24, he is 35 and i moved to cyprus to be with him. We have so many memories and good times but these days it just seems like there are more bad than good. How can i be strong and think about this without just thinking it will be the wrong decision and living my life with ';what if's'; ??





Please no neg comments because i really just need some good old advice. TaRelationship advice muchos needed!?
Go to Australia, why make a mistake last a lifetime?Relationship advice muchos needed!?
5 years is maybe the longest he has managed to maintain a relationship. Sounds to me like he is a grumpy bear that will only get grumpier and you are young and have ambition. Follow your heart. There are lots of opportunities out there far too many to waste more time with someone who does not treat you with respect and love. Hold onto the good times as a memory because that is all they are now a memory. Good luck.
All relationships evolve over time but at the end of the day, ask yourself this:





1. What is bothering him? Hav eyou talked to him about why he seems so upset, moddy, critical? Perhaps there is an underlying issue.





2. Are YOU happy?





The second answer to that one will tell you everything.





Good luck, either way.
five years is a long time.





And if you are unhappy now then I say go for it.





You only live your life once, don't waste it being unhappy.





Just because you love him and have good memories with him does not mean you should stay.





He will live if you end things. He will move on.





I think you should take a friend with you to australlia or where ever you go.





Good luck!!
Don't stay just because you have 5 years invested. If you're with someone who doesn't make you happy, the TRUE love of you life might come and go while you're stuck with this guy.


You are young. Make a life that will make you happy and this guy doesn't sound like he's going to be a part of it. Good luck.
At 5yrs,almost everyone starts to have trouble,you do get fustrated of the same old ,its like eathing the same thing ,if you still love the guy,ask him if you two will go to see a doctor who deals in realationships,if not he doesnt like you no more.
that sounds like what i went through not too long ago... and i left him cause you can only put up with so much arguing... but to each their own
Make a list of the goods and the bads, truthfully, you will ALWAYS have what ifs. Good luck!
Hi


5 years is a long time and over time relationships do change..(not always for the better..


Of course you still waill care for him..he has been part of your life for a long time but if he is unwilling to change and you are this unhappy ..you have to think about your life too.





sounds like you should go to australia you can either tell him you need a break for while or end it totally..





but yiou have to start to think about your needs too you should be happy you are only 24...





good luck.go book your ticket ! life is for living...