I need some relationship advice, please?

Two weeks ago, my guy friend told me he wants to move our relationship forward to the next level. He wants us to spend more time together and get to know each other. He told me that things could definitely get serious between us. He told me he has deep feelings for me which he doesn't know quite how to express. I feel the same way about him. I love him very much. He told me he wants me to be feel comfortable with him. He also told me if he does anything which makes me feel uncomfortable or crosses the line, to tell him. Do you think he is telling me the truth? Do you think he is looking for a commitment from me? How do you know when someone is serious about having a relationship with you? Have we become boyfriend and girlfriend? I have known this man for about 10 months. We are good friends.I need some relationship advice, please?
this man is love with you for a long time you just didnt see signals you are closer than you know take a chance see if you can feel it in his touch this man is about to burst and if you dont take him serious he will give up as lost battle that you are blind you cant see a good thing right in front of you good luckI need some relationship advice, please?
hm, sounds healthy to me.





he sounds like he's being respectful-he doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. 'he doesn't know quite how to express'?? that's awesome. lucky girl.





i don't know if you'd call it boyfriend/gf yet, but it sounds like he's telling you the truth from what you've written out. he's probably looking for commitment.





give it a go.


god bless
if he is that open and honest with you about taking the relationship to the next level then maybe you should try to be opne with him too.
so up to now it seems like he is doing all the talking! Dont you think you should be talking back to him and not asking us. Maybe he is going a bit fast ask him to slow down or are you ready for the next step. i wish you lots of luck. xx and fun
it sounds to me as if this guy is genuine ,you cant ask for more as hes told you if he crosses the line to tell him, it sounds like this one is worth making the effort for, you can but see where it goes,i would definately say he wants a proper relationship with you ,give it a go as you have feelings for him and hes admitted he has feelings for you,yes it looks like he wants some sort of committment,if youve just been friends i think what hes trying to say is he wants an exclusive relationship as in one on one,go for it girl,if it does not work at least you tried and if you do not try you will always wonder could he have been the one , GOOD LUCK and i hope it works out





ps ignore the idiotic answer from the chilish person just above mine
i have know a lot of guy in my lifetime. i think this one is pulling the wool over your eyes to get what he wants.
it really sounds like you both really like each other. don't let him cross the line and make him wait for it,if he really likes you he will wait til you tell him the time is right. let him get to know you as a couple first and if he waits then he is serious about you.
There's no reason to think he's not telling the truth from what you've said. Sounds like a sweet guy. You have to talk to him about whether you're bf/gf or not, otherwise it's just awkward. Tell him you want to.
If you two have not done the tribal bone dance yet, there could be something wrong.


The only guys I know who wait this long before getting laid are geeks, homos or psycophatic killers.
Hey Hotstuff - sure sounds to me like you are boyfriend/girlfriend. Hope you two always remain the best of friends, because if you both pursue your relationship, you really need to be just that - best friends. Considering you have known each for 10 months now and the type of things he communicated - I twink he is serious about a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Best of luck to both of you!


Joe
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, this is deffinentley getting serious! And it sure sounds like he's looking for your commitment to this relationship! Make sure this is want you want first. And if it is go with the flow, and go steady. Yes, you are deffinently on a bf/gf status by now.
Commitment is a big step. It takes two to tango as the old saying goes!!. If both of you two a happy with each other and very open with one another with no dark secrets than I guess to commit is the right thing to do.
trust your intuition...surely, if he is not sincere warning bells would be alarming by now...take it easy and go with the flow...
Just take your time..you will know if it's right between you both. I wish you all the best!
THAT IS SO ALWSOME IT'S NOT EVERYDAY THAT YOU FIND A GUY THAT CAN EXPRESS HIS FEELINGS AS DEEP AS HE HAS. DON'T LET THIS ONE GO AND IF YOU LOVE HIM LIKE YOU SAY YOU DO GO FOR IT BUT TAKE IT SLOW FOR A WHILE AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING IT'S OBVIOUS YOUR DOING THE RIGHT THING PLEASE DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY HE SEEMS GREAT!
Well, if you know the guy well enough and you trust him, then listen to what he's saying. But also, trust yourself and your instincts because some guys can seem nice and honest but might not be what they seem. Also, if your not sure if your boyfriend and girlfriend, try and ask him discreetly, it might help a little. I hope I have given you something that will help. Good Luck!
ur ugly who would want 2 date u