Thursday, July 29, 2010

Relationship advice ?

my bf and i were in a very wonderful relationship [in love about to move in w/ each other] then he switched to a diff. college but we stayed in contact and visited each other often.





then he lost his phone for 2 weeks and wasn'tt able to talk to me, when he got a new one he kept asking why in the 2 weeks did i cheat on him. i was pretty upset since ihadn'tt talked to him for 2 weeks and plus he was accusing me of cheating so i got an attitude and told him iwasn'tt to sure about keeping our relationship going.. anyways so i got myself together and realized i was being quite mean but now when i try to talk to him he ignores me . so what do i do ?





all answerer's= thank you, ;] Relationship advice ?
Sweetheart, it seems as though you left out pertinent information in your question: Did you cheat on him? Why was that brought up? Did you state you hadn't cheated? What questions did you confront him with? Has or had he in fact cheated?





The two of you must (1) Be mature. Stop flying off the handle, get your emotions under control and be calm. (2) Be honest. Tell the truth and ask for the truth. Don't dangle carrots nor be pretentious just to get a response. (3) Finally, make decisions based on the facts: Whether the relationship can survive long distance, if there is a trust factor in play, and how much time you are willing to put into this.





You will know if it's going anywhere. Be focused and make sound decisions for your life. --Keep your head up!Relationship advice ?
Try ro call him and talk about it. That's about all you can do. Maybe, he's calmed down now.

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