Sunday, July 25, 2010

Relationship advice, please.?

I dated this guy all last summer and through the fall semester (while i was away at school). during spring semester we just completely stopped talking all together (he wanted to hook up with other girls), but ever since i've been home we talk everyday and he keeps telling me how much he missed me and acts like we're together again. everyone says we're going to get back together. should i go back to him?Relationship advice, please.?
This isnt a question that strange, random people on yahoo answers - like myself - can answer for you.





You obviously still have feelings for him if you're considering it in the first place. In fact, I think deep down you already know the answer. It will come hand in hand with the way your heart beats when you see him, how happy you are when you're with him etc.





Just give it a try again, you'll get one of two results. Either he's changed his ways, and you are really happy together. Or you make a mistake, but at least you can learn from it.





Good luck =)





Edit: Tag23 made me think that maybe you should weigh up the pros and cons. The way he MAKES you feel against the way he MADE you feel when he wanted to hook up with the other girls. Do you think you should go through that again?Relationship advice, please.?
I would say No because if you did not officially break up and he just decided to see another girl while you were gone that is consider cheating! If you did break it off and he did not cheat then why no go a head get back together. But only if you like him! Don't listen to other people do what your own heart says! But if I were you I would not take him back because he sounds like a player! He just wanted you for a while to try to get you into bed and when that did not work because you were going a way he wanted to try to hook up with other girls. Now that you are back you wants to try to get you into the bed again!
He's a user looks like he's more interested in his needs than yours. Go ahead he'll be with you till he wants to hook up again.You think these people change? Don't give him your heart til you know he won't break it. Been around long enough to know You answered your own question (he wanted to hook up with other girls If that doesn't tell you something, nothing will. Go back to him at your own risk just don't fall about when he pulls the same stunt you know it's coming.





Hi Jess, the mistake has already been made





(he wanted to hook up with other girls)
That all depends on what you want out of the relationship. If your just looking for a cuddle buddy over summer break then I'd say go for it, but be sure he know that's how you feel. If your looking for more then that it might be best to keep your distance as best you can.
If you do, you'll become one of those girls he wanted to hook up. Yes, that means he just wants to sleep with you. It's a guy thing. Once they lose you, they want you back, even just for a little while for triumph. Then, they will dump you again, another cycle begins. Just move on!
only you can answer that ... was he worth it .. do you love him.. does he love you ? do you want to get with him forever or just to have fun .. just some questions to ask yourself .. weight out the pro's and cons :)
no you left him for a reason the reason was he wanted to hook up with other girls, remember? He doesn't deserve you.
nah, he sounds like a douche

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