Relationship Advice NEEDED!!?

I seriously don't know what's wrong with me lately. I'm usually a very outgoing, happy, cheerful, and positive person. But lately, I've been feeling depressed unfortunately. I'm young, only 19 years old, graduated high school in June 2009. But I feel mature beyond my age. I used to party with my friends all the time, and I still like to enjoy myself and have a good time. But I'd like to settle down with someone. I don't know what to do with myself, I feel lonely and antisocial at times because I'd rather do something else besides party and drink all of the time. I want to move somewhere, experience things for myself and meet new people. I just wish I had a signifigant other, I haven't had a serious relationship in a while. I feel like theres something wrong with me. I admit, I'm an attractive lady and seem to have my things together. But it seems like guys are never interested in me. Please give me advice.Relationship Advice NEEDED!!?
There is nothing wrong what so ever with wanting to settle down. If you feel you've partied enough, and are done with the single life then good for you. It takes time to find the right person to settle down with. Try dating around some. Some guys you run into may not be ready to settle down like you are...while some might actually be.


Maybe your trying all the wrong guys...Because you'll find the ';right'; guy who will appreciate you having your things together. He's going to like how your independent %26amp; not be depending on him.





Try dating around...meeting new people...or talk to friends about setting up a date. Try something different...you never know what might happen when you try something new.Relationship Advice NEEDED!!?
If you have been doing or living in some way and notice you didn't get what you want this way, change it. Learn new stuff will be helpful.
I'd try chatting online to meet new people. You will have a wider range of demographics to choose from than just your partying buddies. That should give you a better chance of meeting someone interesting. There are lots of crazies there to be sure, but there are also some good ones. You can ignore the crazies and keep in touch with the nice ones. After a while you may want to meet one or two of them and then who knows what will happen!? The trick is to be patient.





It also helps to have a good idea of what kind of man you are looking for so that you can be efficient in the selection process. Just saying you are lonely and need someone who will keep you company isn't going to cut it because a man needs to feel that you need him specifically and not just anyone with a heartbeat. Think of all the men you have known and try to figure out why you liked certain ones better than others. That should give you a good start in the online dating game.