Relationship advice please?

i have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years in my rental apartment. he owns his own luxury apartment across the road, but refuses to live there! he doesn't even rent it out, it is just collecting dust while we live and pay rent in a tiny little flat.


i took him to a session of relationship counselling so we could work out our living situation with the help of a neutral mediator.


my boyfriend point blank refuses for us to move into his apartment (it apparently depresses him, and he sees it only as a ';nest egg';, not a place to live). despite me offering to renovate, and promising that i will never try to claim half of it (as a de facto), he still refuses for us to move into it. the counselling session- we reached a conclusion- he HAS to rent it out, and we move to a bigger rental apartment.


this is ok i guess, but i would rather the security of a place that is OWNED, not rented.


what should i do?Relationship advice please?
Let your boyfriend wear the boots in your relationship, he should make the decisions on his place.Relationship advice please?
tell him to sell his place since it has no use and get a new place..





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report him! =]
If he hates this one so much,tell him to sell it and with the money to buy a new one,that he actually likes.What the f.... it is so dumb to pay rent and own at same time.It doesn't make any sense.


Your bf is a stubborn man.
Live with it or move on.
Thank God you have a neat boyfriend. Most would never go to a counselor, especially about a sensitive subject, and seldom come to a compromise.


What security would an owned apartment have for you, you've already told him you wouldn't claim it. Have you figured out if he is going to use part of the rent to pay for part of the larger apt?


You have some kind of counselor to pulll this off. You have an ace of a boyfriend. Land him.