Relationship advice, please help me?

okay, its kind of pathetic asking strangers about this but i need an unbiased opinion.here goes... i was going out with this guy for two years. i was/am in love with him and everything was going great. about 5 months ago there was rumours and stuff about him cheating on me. at first i didn't believe it but his close friends decided to tell me the truth. anyway, it turned out he had gotten with a girl just a few days before. i think its Pretty obvious that i dumped him right there and then. but after a week or so i decided to forgive him, he had made a mistake and he was sorry. ever since then everything was going smoothly but i wasn't happy, i was always suspicious when he would go somewhere, and jealous if he even looked at a girl. it was an awful feeling, i was so unhappy that i ended it. at the time it seemed like the right thing to do, but now he is planning on moving away, and i have come to the realisation that it really will be over. i love him so much, and all i want right now is to be with him, but can i really forgive him and do you think i could really be happy? helpRelationship advice, please help me?
well obviously I can't tell you what to do , because you have to decide that for yourself :) But what happened to you is exactly what happened to me with my current bf =/ Remember relationships are based on trust , and he lost your trust . So you now have to decide if you could ever trust him again . Because he cheated on you, it caused you to become suspicious %26amp; jealous a lot , but has he stayed truthful to you after you guys got back together? The main thing is to decide if you can trust him again %26amp; if you do that you will be able to forgive him. Sounds really hard but once you get through it it'll all work out :)Relationship advice, please help me?
Once a cheater, always a cheater.





^^^ Well that's not always true, but you need to set up boundaries to protect yourself. That's why so many people have these rules for themselves that can't be broken... because they have the self-respect to admit that they've been hurt and they're not invincible.
Get over with him, or better yet, FORGET HIM..!!! If he can do that with you despite that you are not yet married???? he can do that anytime... Move on with your life. You don't deserve a Pig Treatment... and You surely Does not deserve Him... God Is Watching You..!!!
If you love him.. yes.





But your going to have to get over the jelousy and suspition if you want to do that. I don't know If I could bear it.
idk, but when I'm in love, I don't even notice other girls.





How much are you willing to do for a guy who (apparently) doesn't love you?
You were a fool to forgive him and you need to get away from him. A real man wouldn't cheat on you.
if u love him them go after him but they say once a man loose a women trust than he can never gain it back lady's u know how that can be
okay well i have been a victim of a cheater and well it was my husband and it happened 3 years ago and well i thought i would never stay with some one who cheated on my its so disrespectful, but in this case i love my husband so much and well i didn't want my marriage to be over so we went to counseling for 2 years and we separated for 7 months and now we are doing good and i trust him again it took a while but if you truly love someone you can learn to forgive them. so some times it works out where you can get through it and other times its for the best that its over its up to you on weather its best or not


hope this helped
i think you could be happy again but you have to completely forgive and forget, that is a REALLY hard thing to do... if you cant do that then i dont think you really ever will get what you guys had, coz as you have already said you will always think hes going out to have sex with other people when he goes anywhere, the trust will be gone and a good relationship cannot survive without trust... try to listen to your heart AND your head and figure out what is best for you..