Relationship advice.. Need lots of answers this time. Whats going on in his mind?

Hey everyone.. Just want some more advice. Always good to hear some feedback. Im slowy coming to terms with my break up after 3 years its been 4 months. My guy basically after all our drama longed out relationship is done and told me to move on, so Im trying to come to terms and leave him be. Its been 3 days sense Ive stopped my annoying obssessed texing, which so far so good..Its just so hard to understand how a man who was once so possessive, degrading and insecure who didnt want me to go anywhere or do anything is able to move on just like that after all we been through. But i still find myself crying day in and day out, sad, and just thinking of the what ifs and maybe he'll come back one day. I just got a new apt that we moved into together and now i feel it isnt so new anymore and has memories of him in it, Which i did not want. Any advice to help me keep staying strong , and how to make my apt. feel comfortable, new fresh..? I just still dont wanna let go. Its really heart renching. Thanks guys for helpRelationship advice.. Need lots of answers this time. Whats going on in his mind?
You were in an abusive and destructive relationship. No answer will give you peace of mind, and you need to stop bothering this guy- he isn't worth your time. Forget it and move on.Relationship advice.. Need lots of answers this time. Whats going on in his mind?
You moved into the same apt where you two lived before? Seriously??? That's not a good sign of mental health. Neither is crying over a break-up after all this time. You are not healing on your own. It sounds like you need professional help.
if you have the money, redo the apt in a way that YOU will like it and be proud to call yours. Don't put anything that can be considered ';his style'; in the apt unless you happen to HONESTLY share that taste.





Now also you have to think about what was honestly so great about him, and don't feel bad to smile about those qualities or memories. After you do that, thing of everything that ever went wrong and realize that you can do better and will find someone who wont be possessive, degrading and insecure.





Also, take this chance to just enjoy being free again. Don't go rushing into a new relationship, savor being your own person for a lil while.





I know how hard it is, i when through the same thing almost 2 years ago. It is still very hard to not run back and beg from him and to kiss him, but honestly i didnt love him when we broke up, i was still in love the memories we had together.
Don't listen to Bill (really bill? Do you have nothing better to do than give crappy advice?).





The most important thing I learned from a very long break up. Is focus on YOU. How can you improve yourself as a person. Get to know yourself better. What hobbies do you like? Make a list of things you want to do. If he was so possessive-Maybe some things you weren't able to do before, are things to go on your list!


There's NOTHING you can do about where he is at. The only thing you can do is find confidence in who you are, OUTSIDE of your relationship with him. No matter WHAT happens with him (though trust me, you DO NOT want to be with someone who disrespects you!! And if he's possessive and controling, he doesn't) you need to move on and make yourself BETTER through the hard time. IT's up to you whether this really hard time destroys you, or makes you stronger.





I also think once you have a healthy confident view of yourself, you will realize you feel good about not being with him. Because you deserve to be happy!

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