Relationship advice please =(?

I am 17 and i asked out this girl i really liked and she liked me to, and she is my first gf. She was my first kiss, my first everything. The first 3 months we went out she was cool,happy,calm, independent, and not emotionally unstable. After that she gradually started crying more and more and gettin super jealous, then she said she loves me. a week later i realized i loved her. Then she got worse... She gets mad at me and i dont even know why. Then she says she wants to have sex with me, she gets all intimate and touchin me an stuff, then i say no because we dont have protection and i dont want to take something i cant give back if we dont work out in the future. She insists we will be together forever and she told me she feels if i ever left her that she would hurt hurself...wtf!!!! why did she say that, she turned me off and now im scared and i dont know if its cause she said that or because i fear losing her. she creeped me out pretty bad. Now get this, we get protection and then wehn i take her on a trip with my family and me and im totally planning to have sex with her... she gets me all horned and then says if we do this *its a promise ull never leave me. i told her i cant promise her that and she got real butthurt. so basically my situation is this, and please give me ur opinion and advice cause i feel like gettin shitfaced right now and she is depressin me so bad. I can either stay with her and be a virgin for several more years, past my prime, miss out on all the things i want to do in my life, or i can dump her. I still love her, but no longer in a romantic way, more of a friend cause shes so cool to chill with. she told me if we ever break up she wont be friends with me, she says im all she has. WTF do i DO?? what does she want from me......................................鈥? (on a later note, i cant watch porn cause she says its cheating, buit if i aint gettin nothing to satisfy me from her why the **** not? ) please someone help meRelationship advice please =(?
i know you don't want to hurt her or her hurt herself, but it's best if you break up with her.Relationship advice please =(?
that was painful to my eyes.....leave her....she's crazy and clingy
wow..i think she is totally taking advantage of you. you seem very sweet and if she knows you have never had sex or anything then she is saying all of these things on purpose. for her own selfish pleasures.you don't tell someone you love that your gonna hurt you self if they leave. if she loves you she will stand by any decision you have.good or bad. because just because someone leaves now doesn't mean they're gone forever. she definitely has you wrapped around her finger. she wants you to be stuck. just do what your heart says.if you want you then you do. if you dint then you don't. your conscience doesn't lie to you.do whats right. and another thing. if she is saying that she is gonna hurt herself then she definitely needs some help. because nobody in the right mind would do that. but idk that's just my opinion. just confront her about this. that's all you can really do right now. and maybe you should start giving suggestions on your guy's relationship.because letting your boyfriend watch porn is definitely not cheating. she is just trying to control you.im a girl and i've dated many guys. i know how people function. trust me.. =]
haha thats great man.. she sounds like a **** and i would leave her unless you can get sex outta her anytime soon id ditch her cause everyone needs a little sex and if she aint even lettin you crank it then i dont think its worth it , like even im a girl and i touch myself when im in relationships .. no problem there
She really likes you that's why she's said that stuff...I've said some of that stuff to my boyfriend he is all I have. And really if you want to be friends i the person to date is your best friend.
She is being manipulative and unfairly so. I think that if you no longer have feelings for her (and understandably so, since she's become so controlling), you should break up with her as kindly as possible. Then if she becomes a jerk, that's on her.





I don't ever condone premarital sex, especially not at your age. That said, no matter which gender it is, if someone is pressuring you for sex and commitment with ultimatums, that is a sign that you're being used and that the relationship is not based on love. It's a form of abuse. Get out.





I'm sorry you're in this predicament.
. ok, well, i say from my oppinion, that u should just tell her we really need to talk. and tell her exactly how ur feeling...ur depressed, creeped out, scared. and tell her that, i was ready to have sex, but that doesnt mean i haave to make that promise because u dont know whats ganna happen next. she doesnt know that she might find another guy that she falls in love with, and u fall in love with a different girl. u have to tell her that YOU are in charge of ur life, YOU make the decisions that u know whats right and whats wrong. and that u love her, but u just gotta take one step at a time. not say, ';oh well ur my everything i wanna b with u forever or im ganna hurt myself'; you know u hear that all the time, ';ur my everything i wanna b with u forever'; i mean i say that too, and u prolly have too, but if u really think about it, your young. u gotta take time to realize who u r definatly inlove with. who ur love is definatly in love with. you guys just have to wait, and u gotta tell her that. and that she cant be controlling ur life, cuz trust me, im a girl, and i hear that all the time...that if ur not with me, i will die. or stuff like that. so just trust in yourself, talk to her, u do what u can do. and thats all that matters.





-hope i helped ya:]-
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Wow.


I would break up with her. Because, why be with someone that depresses you, and that you don't like anymore then a friend now. It's not fair to her, or you.





As far as i can tell, this situation isn't going to get any better if you guys don't try and work things out. But, of course your gonna have to tell her how you feel to do so.
she probably doesn't get attention from home so she expects to get it from you and her saying she'll hurt herself is her way of saying don't leave me or ill screw your life up, if she has hurt herself in the past then you need to get her to see a counselor. as for the sex thing you should wait till marriage i didn't and not waiting was the worst mistake i ever made. watching porn is not cheating, she is most likely attached to you but the best thing to do is break up with her and talk to her to make sure that she wouldn't try and hurt herself.





hope this helps
i'm sorry but i'll be honest...she's a psycho dump her. anyone with half a brain will stay friends with someone if they love them. and you can't say you'll be together with someone forever at your age. i'm 17 and i think it's ridiculous, and i'm a girl, so i'm sure there are some chicks out there with the same belief...
You two obviously are not right for each other. You are not going to change her and she is not going to change you. It is time to go your separate ways and find someone who you are compatible with.
wow. thats a tough one. i think she is creepy. if u dnt wanna have sex with her dnt. why shld u lose her viginity? its not ur job! i c y she hasn't! anyway, i think u shld break up with her. watching porn isn't cheating! wtf! if it bothers her, u need to understand that. okay, some girls think that if they have sex with their boyfriend, they will always love eachother, and be together 4ever. well it not true. its not ur fault she's a virgin! dnt think u have to change that. i think u shld wait, let it be with some1 special, some1 u rele care about. btw, u said liked? u dnt lyk her any more?








hope that helped :)
Hmmm. All of these symptoms are symptoms of pure INFATUATION.





She wants somebody to wrap around her finger. Please. Do all of us a favor and find a girl that would really LOVE you.
be her *********
dang you got it bad dat mean she really loves you and she's very scared to lose you cause i did that to my present before he just got me by my self and told me to stop acting like a ******* fool he said keep acting like this and we are really are going to be over then i straighten up cause i knows when he gets serious
I would leave her alone honestly she threaten to hurt herself so you would feel sorry and have pity on her. Also she has it in her mind that if she said that you will stay with her, I know you love her but all your gone to end up doing is wasting your time and arguing alot with her. And if she won't be your friend because you dump her well how can i say this there is plenty of girls out there and plenty of people so you can find more friends and another girlfriend.
You need to get her some help, she has really gotten to clingy. You sound like you are really practical. Maybe talk to her family and some of her friends to get her some help. It is not right that she is doing this to you.
Either give her some under the promise that you will never leave her or dump her and find someone more mentally stable. I'd go with option b) personally because if you get some and then try to leave her you will probably be really experiencing a ';FATAL ATTRACTION!!!'; GOOD LUCK!!!
you talk to her. tell her that she's worrying you. tell her that you care for her but all this is pushing you away. let her know how you feel. tell her ALL the great things about her. then tell her how you feel and why you feel that way. she's being needy, jealous, demanding and annoying. you say all these things nicely. i wish you luck.
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Ok so im no expert but i thin k shes getting too clingy. If you don't have feelings for her anymore then dump her. Like if you don't like her and your still going out with her that's pretty much playing her and that's not cool. And she obviously isn't too cool because no real friend/ gf would tell you that if you dumped me i wont be your friend anymore, that's just low. I think you should say, ';Hey i think that I'm too young to be in a serious relationship and i need to be free and live my life as a young guy and maybe when im older we can get back together but right now I think we should just be friends.'; or something like that. But whatever you do break up with her in person not over the phone. Hope this helps :D
It's called young love. You guys are young, and girls at that age think they have everything figured out when in the long run, they really don't.
you should dump her bc she just wants attn and is too clingy
Okay so she kinda sounds jealous and possesive which is absoultely not okay. ur still young and there's many girls out there, u shouldn't just get stuck on her cause she's ur 1st gf. Maybe ya should break up.
woah sounds like sumones despreate...(not u..her)





y not just dump her? theres no rush and u dont need to be in a relationship. y be with sumone if u dont love her and all she does is depress u?








she wants to control u obviously. she has u on a leash.





r u happy like that?


is that wat u want?





theres plenty other girls and normal ones too lol





u shouldnt let her threaten u with her hurting herself.





just think about it and think about wat u want and wat makes u happy. it takes more than 3months to realize u love someone...





:)