Monday, November 21, 2011

Relationship advice pleasee?

So ive been dating this guy for just over 2 years and we've broken up alot and hes cheated on me a few times and he says i cheated on him but i didnt do anything with anyone else untill we brokeup. So we brokeup for like 1-2 weeks, and right now we've been broken up for like a month and hes dating another girl, but still tells me how much he loves me. So i met a new guy this week and i like him, but i still love my ex and im pretty sure he loves me unless hes lying. When i talk about the other guy he gets really mad but when he talks about the other girl and i get mad he freaks out. He has massive anger issues and we fight alot over stupid things. I dont know if i should just let him go or if i should wait for something that isnt going to happen. He says he cant let me go but hes dating another girl and the diffrence is he told her he loved her and the guy i like i never said anything like that. tell me what you think. thanks %26lt;3Relationship advice pleasee?
Wow. Ok... first off, he CHEATED on you. And second, he did it MULTIPLE TIMES! If he truly, deeply LOVED you, he wouldn't have done that. So that is the first sign that there is something wrong.





Now, him telling you he still loves you when he is dating another girl. Have you ever thought about how he might be saying those things so you wouldn't leave him (just like you are doing now)? Why is he dating the other girl, if he is still in love with you. He is playing you! He keeping you right where he wants you!





My personal opinion is that you should leave him. You should tell him to ';let'; you go. Your relationship with him is not healthy. If you are still holding onto your ex-bf, it is not fair for the next guy who comes into your life because that guy will never be able to get your full attention and love since you will be caught up with the ';I love you';, ';I miss you';, etc. from the ex. Think about it. Would you want to date a guy who is still in love with his ex-gf? That guy will go behind your back and tell his ex that he still loves her. How would you feel?Relationship advice pleasee?
If you're still in love with your ex, you shouldn't be in a relationship with another man. You're lying to yourself.

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