Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Relationship advice please?! easy ten points!?

i was with my boyfriend for two years


hes 17 and he acts like hes 5


i love him but his immature behavior is just sooo annnoying


one minute he tells me to leave him alone then when i dont contact him for just ONE day he keeps texting and calling


why does he do that?


and if i just never got in contact with him for like a month or maybe even more, WOULD HE MISS ME?


how can i solve this problem? i want us to grow up %26amp; for him to figure out what he wantsRelationship advice please?! easy ten points!?
he'd miss you, hes just immatureRelationship advice please?! easy ten points!?
Here's my advice sweetie; Move On.





You can't change anyone, and at 17, he doesn't know what he wants and might not for a long time. I know you say you love him and I believe you do, but just because you love someone is no excuse to stay with them if they treat you like crap! You have to love yourself more, you have to respect yourself and know what you deserve and what you are and are not willing to settle for.





If you leave him alone and move on, he might realize belatedly what he was missing. Then he can work to improve himself if he makes that decision. But we girls...we love to think we'll find someone who loves us enough to change for us!





That's ego talking, and it just doesn't work. You find a guy who you like AS IS....or stay with someone, flaws and all. There is no middle ground.
I've had a bf like this before, I ended up breaking up with him because it stressed me out all the time, everyday for 3 months.


Hes really dependent and lonely, depressed, probably cause of family problems and stuff.


We're still friends and he understands why we're not dating anymore.





Definitely talk to him, thats probably an answer that you don't wanna hear, but seriously, I would.





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Could you answer mine plz? =D
dont call him for a week and make him make his mind up then tell him you love him and you ate always there for him.
you should act annoyed when he acts all immature and stuff. if he doesn't get the hint then talk to him. if he isnt grown up enough to talk about it calmly then take a break from being with him or break up with him (hopefully this will not have to happen).if you do this, at first you will miss each other, but you can get through it. remember that you deserve the best and try to get the problem resolved or *tear* move on (that tear was not sarcastic by the way)
Just tell him that you think he acts a bit immature for his age and ask him to stop acting so young. If he takes it well, then that's a sign that he would miss you. If it doesn't go too well, then he may not be that into you. Idk, that's just my opinion. : )
He sounds really immature. You should end it.

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