Relationship advice? Please?

Okay, here's the deal. My gf and I broke up a week ago for two reasons. One, she felt she didn't love me anymore. Two, she's going away for a few months and doesn't know for sure when she'll be back. We're still best friends, and we spend as much time as we can, however busy and limited we are. But she wants me to be happy and she thinks I should find someone else to love. Problem is...not that easy. I'm kind and understanding and all, but...I'm very shy, I don't talk much, and I'm very corny. She loves that; I doubt other girls do. Plus, I still love her as much as I always have. So, what do I do? Do I try to rekindle our relationship before she leaves and it's too late? Or do I struggle to find a new 'love?'Relationship advice? Please?
OK, I apologize for leaving you a nasty response to your answer to my question. Seriously.





Anyway, the answer to your question is that there is no easy answer. I suffered through a few long distance relationships and it's tough. Don't worry that you are shy. Lots of girls will still like you. Dude, you are only 15. Seriously, relax and try to enjoy yourself. You will find someone else.Relationship advice? Please?
One of the harsh realities in life is that you CANNOT make another person love you. If she said the love is gone, as far as she is concerned, I would let it go at that. You have a lot of good qualities which I'm sure would be welcomed by many other women. What you need to do do is to work on your self confidence. If you think that other girls will not have a relationship with you, you have already lost half the battle, before you stepped onto the battlefield.You have to take this girl at her word that she may not be coming back. You have to move on with your life. You don't want to live like a hermit, do you?I know that you still love this girl with all your heart, and your heart is breaking, but you can't just sit there and sulk.Life is what you make of it.If given a lemon, you make lemonade. Good luck to you.
Tough one man, But if she doesn't love you as much now as before...chances are, she didn't LOVE you at all. She probably feels that she needs time to ';live'; and see the world or something...girls are interesting. If you truly love her, then talk to her...Don't jump to conclusions and really think about what you truly feel before you say too much and kill your chances
Its not always good to hold onto a love. When you love something so much the saying is you have to let it free. There are other females out there that will want you
ummmm....why do you have to go straight from one relationship into another??





I have to be honest here though and tell you that it doesn't sound as though you have much of a chance to rekindle anything with this last girlfriend of yours. No matter what you do, she broke it up and if she isn't sure whether she loves you....that's quite a serious thing! Ask yourself....do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? Actually, she sounds like quite a strong girl who is able to make up her own mind. Sounds to me that she needs to have her freedom before she goes away. I think that deep down you know that too!





I wouldn't try to rekindle anything if I were you, just remain friends....who knows, she might miss you so much that when she comes back, she'll want you again....its possible!





As for you not finding anyone else....that's rubbish, you just need some confidence in yourself! Many many girls like shy guys, its not a negative quality....not is being corny...but it doesn't really sound that you should jump into another relationship, not until you've sorted yourself out!
It sounds as if she has already made up her mind and anything you do will only bring you grief in the long run. As far as being shy and corny, don't sweat it as there are women out there who are just looking for a guy like you. The ratio of women to men in this country is 10:1. At the very least there are 9 other women out there for you. Just be patient and be real. Time and experience may bring you out of your shell and you will do better.
U can say what u want but if she don't then accept it.
Plenty of fish in the sea...she will get over you!
Ever hear the saying ';A caged bird won't sing';? Well, that kind of fits. If she dosen't want to be in the relationship, trying to keep here there will only make her upset. If you don't want to search for someone new, don't. Stay friends with her and if she decides that she loves you, she'll come back. And I don't think its too strong for you to tell her that, either. Simply let her know, you don't want someone else right now, you still love her. You'll give her time to work out her feelings. If she decides that she dosen't want to come back, then fine. You'll find someone else when you're ready.
Are you kidding me dude? Girls love guys who are corny if you do it right. Thats how I got my wife and she is smoking hot
You give yourself time to heal...there's no need to rush into another relationship...just let her go and continue to be her friend, if you can...in time she may realize it's you that she wants....and by the way, girls do love corny guys..it's not just her :o)
Go fishing or something. Just hang out for a while. Your girlfriend told you in a very polite and kind way that its over. If you're less than 100 years old, you have plenty of time to live your life. Have fun.
be courageous,find someone,don't look for love because love is something that sneaks up on you,you will find the right person in due time.
If you love, set it free...
hey about your relationship, Let me tell you what i did when my hisband wasn't my hubby. We split i though it was best even though we were b.o.f. So like there's a saying that goes like this ';If you love something so bad, let it go but if it returns then there's a chance of you getting back'; I tried it and it really happen.
Don't try and ';rekindle'; anything. She made it obvious that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.





You will find someone else even though you are shy. You found this girl didn't you? There will be more.
dont rekidle ur love she is telling u she has someone on the side
Let her go. Her telling you to find other people is a sign that she is through, but does not want to say that.





Besides, there is no reason you have to go date right now. Give your heart a chance to grieve, reflect on what you've learned from this relationship, and move on.
if you still love her, tell her. let her know how you feol and leave it at that. i would not advise finding a new love right away. she may come back after you tell her how you feol.
I think you should find someone else. How our you going to move on with your life loving someone that is asking you to love someone else? If this is what she is asking from you she might not be the right girl for you to be with and suggest that you move on to someone that will appreciate all the love that you can give.
Wow you are in a pickle. with both the reasons that you have stated that she broken up with you it would be really hard to suggest that you try to work things out. As much as i would hate to admit it i would have to suggest moving on. its one of the hardest things to do in these situations but nine times out of ten its usually the best choice. but i would say give it some real thought maybe even have a long talk with her about it, i mean a good open discussion getting all cards on the table, and then make your decision.