Monday, November 21, 2011

I need some relationship advice?

me and my gf are both 16. we have been going out for 5 months now. in the beginning it was awesome, we talked on the phone 24/7 and all nite long and when we wernt talking we were talking on aim and when we. we would also hang out at least 5 times a week. but now it seems that we've just lost our spark. we only talk online and thats sometimes and almost never hang out. i feel like im losing her and i need help. anyone have any advice?I need some relationship advice?
this is a normal phase in most relationships. ive been through it plenty of times, the beginning of any relationship ';honeymoon phase'; is full of mystery, you both are trying to get to really know the other person. after the ';honeymoon'; it kinda calms down. typicaly in the beginning guys pull out all the stops, (suprises, flowers, dates....) the best thing to do is let her have some space to go out with her friends, but just because you 2 are comfortable together, dont let that stop you from being the guy she fell for, remind her that you are the same guy she fell for, just because you already have her make her feel special and suprise her, the same way you would if you 2 were just starting a relationship. keep it interesting, let her know u still care about her, and if she wants to go off with her friends, let her know you trust her, and the next time you know she is home and doesnt have plans, surpise her, show up with her favorite movie or food or something and have a movie night, then when you get a chance let her know how you feel, and try to get her views on everything... good luckI need some relationship advice?
You might not want to hear this, but love tends to... die sometimes. It just happens, and there's really nothing you can do about it. But stopping it before both of you end up sinking further is probably a good idea, Jesse.





=( Good luck!
You are spending way to much time together, back off from each other a little, with out braking it off completely, and remember some times things are better when you do not have them around all the time!
Why not just talk to her?


If it's time to let go, u hv to. No point holding on something that is not yours anymore.
I'm not gonna blow you full of sunshine. You're sixteen. It's only been five months and it sounds as though the fire of your relationship is already dwindling to an ember, on at least your girlfriends part. While your feelings were real. You're by no means ready for a lasting committed relationship. At five months many relationships are just beginning to take off and burn sweetly, yours on the other hand is merely flickering. Can a high school sweetheart be your life long partner? It happens, And I have known a few couples well into their fifties that began as teenage sweethearts. But most of the time they're simply just a passing faze in life. I think more importantly you should put energy into enjoying being a teen. experience all the fun, ';safe fun'; that is while you can. And put most of your energy into things like school. So when the time comes in your adult years you're ready for a long term committed relationship.
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