Me and this girl were dating for 3 months. All of a sudden she says that she feels its not going anywhere. BUT she calls me and texts me like we are still dating. Do you think she just needs time. Today she texts me twice and calls me and I didn鈥檛 respond until an hour later and she thinks I am ignoring her. Is this a game???? I really like her and i felt we really never got to know eachother well enough. Would she still miss me if i just back off and would that be my only chance. We clicked very very well. Had sex 2 times and enjoyed each other company. Anyone have any life experiences to share etc.. I am 30 she 26.Why would she think I am ignoring her if she broke it off? Any advice or anything .. PLEASE. Could she just be thinking of still being with me? What does a girl think in this situation.Relationship Advice! Any ideas on how to approach this issue? Please read?
I know im only 14 and most people dont believe little kids but, as a young lady i think she's giving you signs that you're missing such as she still has feelings for you and she might want you back but she's scared that you're gonna say no, so she probably wants to be friends with benefits for right nowRelationship Advice! Any ideas on how to approach this issue? Please read?
go for it. or, move on . whatever. your thirty years old. shouldnt you have figured this out by now?
What is your deal, how many times are you going to post this, no wonder she said you two were going nowhere because this question is going nowhere, get a life and move on!!!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Relationship Advice Need Your Opinion?
There's this guy I met almost a month ago and I have fallin for him deeply... I am NOT in LOVE with him? (He is really not the guy I would date but something about him attracts me to him) He dissed me before by making some girl call my phone playing as if she is a girlfriend which made me mad at him for a bit but now were talking again. He is about to go to jail and I am so sad about it. We aren't dating but I do want to be with him and he wants to be with me what should I do keep in mind that he will be in jail for 6 months?Relationship Advice Need Your Opinion?
well if when is out in the ';free world'; he can get someone to call you pretending that they are his girlfriend,what do you think he will do when he is serving his time? he may be telling you or making you think that he wants to be with you only because he is about to be locked up and needs a ';pen pal'; or some one of that nature. from experience,guys will write or talk to almost anyone from behind bars.that meaning more than one person if possible. he may very well be preparing himself so that he knows for sure that you will be ';there for him'; during this time. i would really think about the situation again.you will more than likely find some one else during his incarceration.you can still be his friend and write him,but i wouldnt suggest a relationship with him because it will be very hard on you for the time he is locked up..........Relationship Advice Need Your Opinion?
if he cared he wouldnt have dont the girlfriend prank. if hes going to jail you dont need any part of him expecially if you know you dont love him
would you really want to take that home to meet your mother if not why waste your time you're just punishing yourself move on
Forget him you shouldn't associate with criminals.makeup look
well if when is out in the ';free world'; he can get someone to call you pretending that they are his girlfriend,what do you think he will do when he is serving his time? he may be telling you or making you think that he wants to be with you only because he is about to be locked up and needs a ';pen pal'; or some one of that nature. from experience,guys will write or talk to almost anyone from behind bars.that meaning more than one person if possible. he may very well be preparing himself so that he knows for sure that you will be ';there for him'; during this time. i would really think about the situation again.you will more than likely find some one else during his incarceration.you can still be his friend and write him,but i wouldnt suggest a relationship with him because it will be very hard on you for the time he is locked up..........Relationship Advice Need Your Opinion?
if he cared he wouldnt have dont the girlfriend prank. if hes going to jail you dont need any part of him expecially if you know you dont love him
would you really want to take that home to meet your mother if not why waste your time you're just punishing yourself move on
Forget him you shouldn't associate with criminals.
Relationship advice:I feel suffocated by my boyfriend's constant presence. How do I tell him I need space?
We only started dating on Valentine's Day and we happen to work in the same office so I see him 4 out of the 5 days I work and he wants to monopolize as much time with me. I understand that I should appreciate that he wants to spend so much time with me, but it's too much. Today I ignored one of his calls and when I called him back he told me he drove by my house but I wasn't home. I also had an email, a voicemail, several text messages and a message on facebook from him. He says I make him happy and I feel like he's too intense and suffocating.
How do I tell him nicely that I need my space, every time I run it by my friends they say I sound mean. I do like him, I like being with him, but not all the time. I don't feel ready for a relationship but committed because he seemed upset that I hadn't said ';I'm your girlfriend and we're exclusive.'; I was exclusive to him, I just didn't think we needed the titles and now everything is too much. Advice anyone?Relationship advice:I feel suffocated by my boyfriend's constant presence. How do I tell him I need space?
.Libby this guy is obviously ';over the top';.So you need to tell him quietly (John when we say cheerio,goodbye adieu or whatever when we part.That's it.I don't want or need you to use every method you know to keep in contact.And John if i don't answer the contact.Please don't keep sending messages.I'm suffocating under a snow storm of signals
How do I tell him nicely that I need my space, every time I run it by my friends they say I sound mean. I do like him, I like being with him, but not all the time. I don't feel ready for a relationship but committed because he seemed upset that I hadn't said ';I'm your girlfriend and we're exclusive.'; I was exclusive to him, I just didn't think we needed the titles and now everything is too much. Advice anyone?Relationship advice:I feel suffocated by my boyfriend's constant presence. How do I tell him I need space?
.Libby this guy is obviously ';over the top';.So you need to tell him quietly (John when we say cheerio,goodbye adieu or whatever when we part.That's it.I don't want or need you to use every method you know to keep in contact.And John if i don't answer the contact.Please don't keep sending messages.I'm suffocating under a snow storm of signals
Relationship advice for someone not feeling well at the moment?
Hi all. I got really sick almost 2 years ago with sleeping and breathing problems, etc. and my boyfriend stuck with me through it all and took really good care of me. We have been together for almost 4 years (both virgins) He is an awesome man of God and he wants to marry me. However, he says I need to be strong and fight my unknown illness and be happy with life if I expect us to stay together. He is leaving in 2 weeks for a 1 year graduate program in Florida and I am already missing him. I want to be with him, I love him and I want to make him happy. How do I get over the pain in my body, my persisting respiratory issues and sleepless nights. I feel really down sometimes and he hates it. Please any advice?.Relationship advice for someone not feeling well at the moment?
even if you don't feel well, try to be happy or at least pretend to be, for him. have you gone to the doctors? they should know what your illness is and help cure itRelationship advice for someone not feeling well at the moment?
Ok, first of let me say I'm so sorry to hear about your health situation. You two have been together for a long time so I know this might seem a little harsh, but from what you've described here, the way he has ';stuck by you'; all this time is not in fact supportive in any way. Encouragement to stay positive is one thing, but to me this sounds more like an ultimatum because he doesn't want to be brought down by your problems. You are ill, and it is perfectly normal to be affected and afraid. Who the hell is he to tell you how to feel? He's not the one suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. You need to take care of yourself first. Focus on getting better and feeling ok. Do it for you, not for him. If I was in your situation and my boyfriend even considered leaving me for a year under any circumstances, I would tell him to reconsider his priorities.
even if you don't feel well, try to be happy or at least pretend to be, for him. have you gone to the doctors? they should know what your illness is and help cure itRelationship advice for someone not feeling well at the moment?
Ok, first of let me say I'm so sorry to hear about your health situation. You two have been together for a long time so I know this might seem a little harsh, but from what you've described here, the way he has ';stuck by you'; all this time is not in fact supportive in any way. Encouragement to stay positive is one thing, but to me this sounds more like an ultimatum because he doesn't want to be brought down by your problems. You are ill, and it is perfectly normal to be affected and afraid. Who the hell is he to tell you how to feel? He's not the one suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. You need to take care of yourself first. Focus on getting better and feeling ok. Do it for you, not for him. If I was in your situation and my boyfriend even considered leaving me for a year under any circumstances, I would tell him to reconsider his priorities.
Relationship advice- weird stuff happening?
Background info: My b/f and I have been together 6 years in June. I used to sleep at his house nearly every night. His house is his Aunt's house really, and 3 Aunt's 1 Uncle, and 2 nephews live there too. He is black and I am white. We are both 24.
Issue at hand: Sunday morning I went home and showered, only to find when combing my hair that a chunk had been snipped out of the front of my hair, leaving a little section spiking up. It is not too noticable, so it didn't necessarily happen the night before.
My first thought was, the children. They are both under 3 though and of course don't run around with scissors. What is weird is that about 1 week ago the older child (age 2.5) said to me ';I cut your hair'; and I said ';You cut my hair?! You wouldn't cut my hair!'; and smiled at him.
I know ppl are weird and ppl do things to hurt ppl, and the kid saying this to me makes me wonder if he is repeating an adult.
I have since told my bf I don't feel safe sleeping over there (my car, other possessions, and my body are there of course when I sleep over- and I don't want to risk anything happening).
My Question: Is this ridiculous? Someone stole an old 100 dollar bill from his scrapbook 2 years ago in that house. Do you think someone could have actually cut my hair? I don't want to accuse ppl of things and it all upsets my bf but only bc im not sleeping over, he doesn't really stick up for me. But it's the kind of thing where- what can we do anyway? There's no way to tell what happened- if anything...
I am a heavy sleeper and we almoist always have the door locked.
Please help, I'm just afraid someone doesn't want me to be there. We all get along outright, but I know there are secret resentments bc my bf is allowed to have me sleep over and older aunts are not allowed to have their middle-aged bfs sleep there too.
Any rationalizations are appreciated- this is one of those things where you will never know what exactly happened. My bf says maybe ';new hair growth'; and his Aunt said ';are you sure its not breaking off?';- but my Mom says it has obviously been cut, as is the case.Relationship advice- weird stuff happening?
You guys are both 24 and have been dating for 6 years. Take your relationship to the next level, get jobs, and move-out. There will be no resentment on anyone's behalf. You won't accuse people or feel suspicious, your BF won't get mad at you or have to choose sides and the aunts will begin to resent you less because you won't be the only one that is not adhering to the normal rules. Problem solved.Relationship advice- weird stuff happening?
This is a tuff one. But when it comes down to it: if you don't feel safe there don't sleep there. I personally would not. Have your boyfriend sleep at your place for a little bit or something.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
I would say that its a possibility and to be careful. Also tell your man to man up, maybe he should move out if he wants you to spend the night.
I think your kid cut your hair. Your thinking much too far into this..
Write much?
your writing to much,you made me lose some brain cells reading this
way 2 much info.my brain cells got killed
Are you dense? The 2.5 year old already confessed. Apparently, he got ahold of a pair of scissors and did it. It happens. Kids cut their own hair all the time. Get over it. Quit being paranoid. If they were out to get you, you wouldn't be allowed to spend the night there and the Auntie would have already kicked your butt out.
It seems to me that either the child, if the child did the snipping, did copy an adult around the house. But that doesn't necessarily mean that the child was copying what an adult was talking about. It is strange and I would seriously talk to your boyfriend if I were you. Make a discussion and what not one night before bed or something.
Issue at hand: Sunday morning I went home and showered, only to find when combing my hair that a chunk had been snipped out of the front of my hair, leaving a little section spiking up. It is not too noticable, so it didn't necessarily happen the night before.
My first thought was, the children. They are both under 3 though and of course don't run around with scissors. What is weird is that about 1 week ago the older child (age 2.5) said to me ';I cut your hair'; and I said ';You cut my hair?! You wouldn't cut my hair!'; and smiled at him.
I know ppl are weird and ppl do things to hurt ppl, and the kid saying this to me makes me wonder if he is repeating an adult.
I have since told my bf I don't feel safe sleeping over there (my car, other possessions, and my body are there of course when I sleep over- and I don't want to risk anything happening).
My Question: Is this ridiculous? Someone stole an old 100 dollar bill from his scrapbook 2 years ago in that house. Do you think someone could have actually cut my hair? I don't want to accuse ppl of things and it all upsets my bf but only bc im not sleeping over, he doesn't really stick up for me. But it's the kind of thing where- what can we do anyway? There's no way to tell what happened- if anything...
I am a heavy sleeper and we almoist always have the door locked.
Please help, I'm just afraid someone doesn't want me to be there. We all get along outright, but I know there are secret resentments bc my bf is allowed to have me sleep over and older aunts are not allowed to have their middle-aged bfs sleep there too.
Any rationalizations are appreciated- this is one of those things where you will never know what exactly happened. My bf says maybe ';new hair growth'; and his Aunt said ';are you sure its not breaking off?';- but my Mom says it has obviously been cut, as is the case.Relationship advice- weird stuff happening?
You guys are both 24 and have been dating for 6 years. Take your relationship to the next level, get jobs, and move-out. There will be no resentment on anyone's behalf. You won't accuse people or feel suspicious, your BF won't get mad at you or have to choose sides and the aunts will begin to resent you less because you won't be the only one that is not adhering to the normal rules. Problem solved.Relationship advice- weird stuff happening?
This is a tuff one. But when it comes down to it: if you don't feel safe there don't sleep there. I personally would not. Have your boyfriend sleep at your place for a little bit or something.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
I would say that its a possibility and to be careful. Also tell your man to man up, maybe he should move out if he wants you to spend the night.
I think your kid cut your hair. Your thinking much too far into this..
Write much?
your writing to much,you made me lose some brain cells reading this
way 2 much info.my brain cells got killed
Are you dense? The 2.5 year old already confessed. Apparently, he got ahold of a pair of scissors and did it. It happens. Kids cut their own hair all the time. Get over it. Quit being paranoid. If they were out to get you, you wouldn't be allowed to spend the night there and the Auntie would have already kicked your butt out.
It seems to me that either the child, if the child did the snipping, did copy an adult around the house. But that doesn't necessarily mean that the child was copying what an adult was talking about. It is strange and I would seriously talk to your boyfriend if I were you. Make a discussion and what not one night before bed or something.
Monday, November 21, 2011
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE please?
Ok, theres this guy I like and he likes me back...the only problem is he has a gf.(and no I would NEVER ever let him cheat on her...even if I don't like her, I don't like guys that cheat). He told my friend that their relationship wasn't going so well because she was bitchy and annoying. He also said that if/when they do break up he really wants to ask me out...and I want to know do you think me and him have a chance and do you have any advice for me?RELATIONSHIP ADVICE please?
hey jessie
wait till you know for sure that he broke up with her. stuff like that gets out around the halls easily so that wont be hard to find out. then you might want to wait a little while cause if he dumps her and goes right for u that girl is going to think that he dumped you for her (which is true) and that will piss her off probably. She might even think you two did something while they were still dating. So put some buffer time to make sure she is completely out of the picture before you move in. byeRELATIONSHIP ADVICE please?
you should not raise ur time on him. is he dating your friend? If this is true, then this is a line you should not cross.
no harm trying... but do check him out first to confirm that he has broken up wif his earlier gal...
tell him that u like him and u want to go with him but he has to break up with his gf if he wants u cause ur not that kind of girl
well i would really have to know him. but if u guys do go out and he start acting distracted then he is thinkin about another girl or he is thinkin about breakin up with you....... i no from experience
Well so far so good, you're thinking the right way.
Never start a relationship with someone who is in another relationship.
If he does try to go too far with you, leave him by himself.
If he would cross the line and try to cheat on his girlfriend, he'll probably do the same with you.
It makes him untrustworthy.
Just keep being friendly and supportive and kind to him. If and when he breaks up he'll remember what a good friend you are and maybe want to be with you.
hey jessie
wait till you know for sure that he broke up with her. stuff like that gets out around the halls easily so that wont be hard to find out. then you might want to wait a little while cause if he dumps her and goes right for u that girl is going to think that he dumped you for her (which is true) and that will piss her off probably. She might even think you two did something while they were still dating. So put some buffer time to make sure she is completely out of the picture before you move in. byeRELATIONSHIP ADVICE please?
you should not raise ur time on him. is he dating your friend? If this is true, then this is a line you should not cross.
no harm trying... but do check him out first to confirm that he has broken up wif his earlier gal...
tell him that u like him and u want to go with him but he has to break up with his gf if he wants u cause ur not that kind of girl
well i would really have to know him. but if u guys do go out and he start acting distracted then he is thinkin about another girl or he is thinkin about breakin up with you....... i no from experience
Well so far so good, you're thinking the right way.
Never start a relationship with someone who is in another relationship.
If he does try to go too far with you, leave him by himself.
If he would cross the line and try to cheat on his girlfriend, he'll probably do the same with you.
It makes him untrustworthy.
Just keep being friendly and supportive and kind to him. If and when he breaks up he'll remember what a good friend you are and maybe want to be with you.
Relationship advice? Please?
Okay, here's the deal. My gf and I broke up a week ago for two reasons. One, she felt she didn't love me anymore. Two, she's going away for a few months and doesn't know for sure when she'll be back. We're still best friends, and we spend as much time as we can, however busy and limited we are. But she wants me to be happy and she thinks I should find someone else to love. Problem is...not that easy. I'm kind and understanding and all, but...I'm very shy, I don't talk much, and I'm very corny. She loves that; I doubt other girls do. Plus, I still love her as much as I always have. So, what do I do? Do I try to rekindle our relationship before she leaves and it's too late? Or do I struggle to find a new 'love?'Relationship advice? Please?
OK, I apologize for leaving you a nasty response to your answer to my question. Seriously.
Anyway, the answer to your question is that there is no easy answer. I suffered through a few long distance relationships and it's tough. Don't worry that you are shy. Lots of girls will still like you. Dude, you are only 15. Seriously, relax and try to enjoy yourself. You will find someone else.Relationship advice? Please?
One of the harsh realities in life is that you CANNOT make another person love you. If she said the love is gone, as far as she is concerned, I would let it go at that. You have a lot of good qualities which I'm sure would be welcomed by many other women. What you need to do do is to work on your self confidence. If you think that other girls will not have a relationship with you, you have already lost half the battle, before you stepped onto the battlefield.You have to take this girl at her word that she may not be coming back. You have to move on with your life. You don't want to live like a hermit, do you?I know that you still love this girl with all your heart, and your heart is breaking, but you can't just sit there and sulk.Life is what you make of it.If given a lemon, you make lemonade. Good luck to you.
Tough one man, But if she doesn't love you as much now as before...chances are, she didn't LOVE you at all. She probably feels that she needs time to ';live'; and see the world or something...girls are interesting. If you truly love her, then talk to her...Don't jump to conclusions and really think about what you truly feel before you say too much and kill your chances
Its not always good to hold onto a love. When you love something so much the saying is you have to let it free. There are other females out there that will want you
ummmm....why do you have to go straight from one relationship into another??
I have to be honest here though and tell you that it doesn't sound as though you have much of a chance to rekindle anything with this last girlfriend of yours. No matter what you do, she broke it up and if she isn't sure whether she loves you....that's quite a serious thing! Ask yourself....do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? Actually, she sounds like quite a strong girl who is able to make up her own mind. Sounds to me that she needs to have her freedom before she goes away. I think that deep down you know that too!
I wouldn't try to rekindle anything if I were you, just remain friends....who knows, she might miss you so much that when she comes back, she'll want you again....its possible!
As for you not finding anyone else....that's rubbish, you just need some confidence in yourself! Many many girls like shy guys, its not a negative quality....not is being corny...but it doesn't really sound that you should jump into another relationship, not until you've sorted yourself out!
It sounds as if she has already made up her mind and anything you do will only bring you grief in the long run. As far as being shy and corny, don't sweat it as there are women out there who are just looking for a guy like you. The ratio of women to men in this country is 10:1. At the very least there are 9 other women out there for you. Just be patient and be real. Time and experience may bring you out of your shell and you will do better.
U can say what u want but if she don't then accept it.
Plenty of fish in the sea...she will get over you!
Ever hear the saying ';A caged bird won't sing';? Well, that kind of fits. If she dosen't want to be in the relationship, trying to keep here there will only make her upset. If you don't want to search for someone new, don't. Stay friends with her and if she decides that she loves you, she'll come back. And I don't think its too strong for you to tell her that, either. Simply let her know, you don't want someone else right now, you still love her. You'll give her time to work out her feelings. If she decides that she dosen't want to come back, then fine. You'll find someone else when you're ready.
Are you kidding me dude? Girls love guys who are corny if you do it right. Thats how I got my wife and she is smoking hot
You give yourself time to heal...there's no need to rush into another relationship...just let her go and continue to be her friend, if you can...in time she may realize it's you that she wants....and by the way, girls do love corny guys..it's not just her :o)
Go fishing or something. Just hang out for a while. Your girlfriend told you in a very polite and kind way that its over. If you're less than 100 years old, you have plenty of time to live your life. Have fun.
be courageous,find someone,don't look for love because love is something that sneaks up on you,you will find the right person in due time.
If you love, set it free...
hey about your relationship, Let me tell you what i did when my hisband wasn't my hubby. We split i though it was best even though we were b.o.f. So like there's a saying that goes like this ';If you love something so bad, let it go but if it returns then there's a chance of you getting back'; I tried it and it really happen.
Don't try and ';rekindle'; anything. She made it obvious that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
You will find someone else even though you are shy. You found this girl didn't you? There will be more.
dont rekidle ur love she is telling u she has someone on the side
Let her go. Her telling you to find other people is a sign that she is through, but does not want to say that.
Besides, there is no reason you have to go date right now. Give your heart a chance to grieve, reflect on what you've learned from this relationship, and move on.
if you still love her, tell her. let her know how you feol and leave it at that. i would not advise finding a new love right away. she may come back after you tell her how you feol.
I think you should find someone else. How our you going to move on with your life loving someone that is asking you to love someone else? If this is what she is asking from you she might not be the right girl for you to be with and suggest that you move on to someone that will appreciate all the love that you can give.
Wow you are in a pickle. with both the reasons that you have stated that she broken up with you it would be really hard to suggest that you try to work things out. As much as i would hate to admit it i would have to suggest moving on. its one of the hardest things to do in these situations but nine times out of ten its usually the best choice. but i would say give it some real thought maybe even have a long talk with her about it, i mean a good open discussion getting all cards on the table, and then make your decision.
OK, I apologize for leaving you a nasty response to your answer to my question. Seriously.
Anyway, the answer to your question is that there is no easy answer. I suffered through a few long distance relationships and it's tough. Don't worry that you are shy. Lots of girls will still like you. Dude, you are only 15. Seriously, relax and try to enjoy yourself. You will find someone else.Relationship advice? Please?
One of the harsh realities in life is that you CANNOT make another person love you. If she said the love is gone, as far as she is concerned, I would let it go at that. You have a lot of good qualities which I'm sure would be welcomed by many other women. What you need to do do is to work on your self confidence. If you think that other girls will not have a relationship with you, you have already lost half the battle, before you stepped onto the battlefield.You have to take this girl at her word that she may not be coming back. You have to move on with your life. You don't want to live like a hermit, do you?I know that you still love this girl with all your heart, and your heart is breaking, but you can't just sit there and sulk.Life is what you make of it.If given a lemon, you make lemonade. Good luck to you.
Tough one man, But if she doesn't love you as much now as before...chances are, she didn't LOVE you at all. She probably feels that she needs time to ';live'; and see the world or something...girls are interesting. If you truly love her, then talk to her...Don't jump to conclusions and really think about what you truly feel before you say too much and kill your chances
Its not always good to hold onto a love. When you love something so much the saying is you have to let it free. There are other females out there that will want you
ummmm....why do you have to go straight from one relationship into another??
I have to be honest here though and tell you that it doesn't sound as though you have much of a chance to rekindle anything with this last girlfriend of yours. No matter what you do, she broke it up and if she isn't sure whether she loves you....that's quite a serious thing! Ask yourself....do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? Actually, she sounds like quite a strong girl who is able to make up her own mind. Sounds to me that she needs to have her freedom before she goes away. I think that deep down you know that too!
I wouldn't try to rekindle anything if I were you, just remain friends....who knows, she might miss you so much that when she comes back, she'll want you again....its possible!
As for you not finding anyone else....that's rubbish, you just need some confidence in yourself! Many many girls like shy guys, its not a negative quality....not is being corny...but it doesn't really sound that you should jump into another relationship, not until you've sorted yourself out!
It sounds as if she has already made up her mind and anything you do will only bring you grief in the long run. As far as being shy and corny, don't sweat it as there are women out there who are just looking for a guy like you. The ratio of women to men in this country is 10:1. At the very least there are 9 other women out there for you. Just be patient and be real. Time and experience may bring you out of your shell and you will do better.
U can say what u want but if she don't then accept it.
Plenty of fish in the sea...she will get over you!
Ever hear the saying ';A caged bird won't sing';? Well, that kind of fits. If she dosen't want to be in the relationship, trying to keep here there will only make her upset. If you don't want to search for someone new, don't. Stay friends with her and if she decides that she loves you, she'll come back. And I don't think its too strong for you to tell her that, either. Simply let her know, you don't want someone else right now, you still love her. You'll give her time to work out her feelings. If she decides that she dosen't want to come back, then fine. You'll find someone else when you're ready.
Are you kidding me dude? Girls love guys who are corny if you do it right. Thats how I got my wife and she is smoking hot
You give yourself time to heal...there's no need to rush into another relationship...just let her go and continue to be her friend, if you can...in time she may realize it's you that she wants....and by the way, girls do love corny guys..it's not just her :o)
Go fishing or something. Just hang out for a while. Your girlfriend told you in a very polite and kind way that its over. If you're less than 100 years old, you have plenty of time to live your life. Have fun.
be courageous,find someone,don't look for love because love is something that sneaks up on you,you will find the right person in due time.
If you love, set it free...
hey about your relationship, Let me tell you what i did when my hisband wasn't my hubby. We split i though it was best even though we were b.o.f. So like there's a saying that goes like this ';If you love something so bad, let it go but if it returns then there's a chance of you getting back'; I tried it and it really happen.
Don't try and ';rekindle'; anything. She made it obvious that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
You will find someone else even though you are shy. You found this girl didn't you? There will be more.
dont rekidle ur love she is telling u she has someone on the side
Let her go. Her telling you to find other people is a sign that she is through, but does not want to say that.
Besides, there is no reason you have to go date right now. Give your heart a chance to grieve, reflect on what you've learned from this relationship, and move on.
if you still love her, tell her. let her know how you feol and leave it at that. i would not advise finding a new love right away. she may come back after you tell her how you feol.
I think you should find someone else. How our you going to move on with your life loving someone that is asking you to love someone else? If this is what she is asking from you she might not be the right girl for you to be with and suggest that you move on to someone that will appreciate all the love that you can give.
Wow you are in a pickle. with both the reasons that you have stated that she broken up with you it would be really hard to suggest that you try to work things out. As much as i would hate to admit it i would have to suggest moving on. its one of the hardest things to do in these situations but nine times out of ten its usually the best choice. but i would say give it some real thought maybe even have a long talk with her about it, i mean a good open discussion getting all cards on the table, and then make your decision.
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