Two weeks ago, my guy friend told me he wants to move our relationship forward to the next level. He wants us to spend more time together and get to know each other. He told me that things could definitely get serious between us. He told me he has deep feelings for me which he doesn't know quite how to express. I feel the same way about him. I love him very much. He told me he wants me to be feel comfortable with him. He also told me if he does anything which makes me feel uncomfortable or crosses the line, to tell him. Do you think he is telling me the truth? Do you think he is looking for a commitment from me? How do you know when someone is serious about having a relationship with you? Have we become boyfriend and girlfriend? I have known this man for about 10 months. We are good friends.I need some relationship advice, please?
this man is love with you for a long time you just didnt see signals you are closer than you know take a chance see if you can feel it in his touch this man is about to burst and if you dont take him serious he will give up as lost battle that you are blind you cant see a good thing right in front of you good luckI need some relationship advice, please?
hm, sounds healthy to me.
he sounds like he's being respectful-he doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. 'he doesn't know quite how to express'?? that's awesome. lucky girl.
i don't know if you'd call it boyfriend/gf yet, but it sounds like he's telling you the truth from what you've written out. he's probably looking for commitment.
give it a go.
god bless
if he is that open and honest with you about taking the relationship to the next level then maybe you should try to be opne with him too.
so up to now it seems like he is doing all the talking! Dont you think you should be talking back to him and not asking us. Maybe he is going a bit fast ask him to slow down or are you ready for the next step. i wish you lots of luck. xx and fun
it sounds to me as if this guy is genuine ,you cant ask for more as hes told you if he crosses the line to tell him, it sounds like this one is worth making the effort for, you can but see where it goes,i would definately say he wants a proper relationship with you ,give it a go as you have feelings for him and hes admitted he has feelings for you,yes it looks like he wants some sort of committment,if youve just been friends i think what hes trying to say is he wants an exclusive relationship as in one on one,go for it girl,if it does not work at least you tried and if you do not try you will always wonder could he have been the one , GOOD LUCK and i hope it works out
ps ignore the idiotic answer from the chilish person just above mine
i have know a lot of guy in my lifetime. i think this one is pulling the wool over your eyes to get what he wants.
it really sounds like you both really like each other. don't let him cross the line and make him wait for it,if he really likes you he will wait til you tell him the time is right. let him get to know you as a couple first and if he waits then he is serious about you.
There's no reason to think he's not telling the truth from what you've said. Sounds like a sweet guy. You have to talk to him about whether you're bf/gf or not, otherwise it's just awkward. Tell him you want to.
If you two have not done the tribal bone dance yet, there could be something wrong.
The only guys I know who wait this long before getting laid are geeks, homos or psycophatic killers.
Hey Hotstuff - sure sounds to me like you are boyfriend/girlfriend. Hope you two always remain the best of friends, because if you both pursue your relationship, you really need to be just that - best friends. Considering you have known each for 10 months now and the type of things he communicated - I twink he is serious about a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Best of luck to both of you!
Joe
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, this is deffinentley getting serious! And it sure sounds like he's looking for your commitment to this relationship! Make sure this is want you want first. And if it is go with the flow, and go steady. Yes, you are deffinently on a bf/gf status by now.
Commitment is a big step. It takes two to tango as the old saying goes!!. If both of you two a happy with each other and very open with one another with no dark secrets than I guess to commit is the right thing to do.
trust your intuition...surely, if he is not sincere warning bells would be alarming by now...take it easy and go with the flow...
Just take your time..you will know if it's right between you both. I wish you all the best!
THAT IS SO ALWSOME IT'S NOT EVERYDAY THAT YOU FIND A GUY THAT CAN EXPRESS HIS FEELINGS AS DEEP AS HE HAS. DON'T LET THIS ONE GO AND IF YOU LOVE HIM LIKE YOU SAY YOU DO GO FOR IT BUT TAKE IT SLOW FOR A WHILE AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING IT'S OBVIOUS YOUR DOING THE RIGHT THING PLEASE DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY HE SEEMS GREAT!
Well, if you know the guy well enough and you trust him, then listen to what he's saying. But also, trust yourself and your instincts because some guys can seem nice and honest but might not be what they seem. Also, if your not sure if your boyfriend and girlfriend, try and ask him discreetly, it might help a little. I hope I have given you something that will help. Good Luck!
ur ugly who would want 2 date u
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need some relationship advice?
I am in a relationship with this guy and I am not happy because I am thinking of my ex.My ex and I have been together a long time and I am at fault for the break up.I am afraid to let anyone into my heart again because We both will get hurt.I also had a son with my ex and he passed away after he was born.I am afraid to love anyone else.I don't want to have kids after this happend.every relationship I get into I run away from.Leave state and disappear.I mean I am not happy.What do I do?I need some relationship advice?
I think you should talk to some one about. Having some one pass away is very hard to deal with and needs lots of time. Tell your boyfriend what your going through. If He loves you he would understand.
I think you should talk to some one about. Having some one pass away is very hard to deal with and needs lots of time. Tell your boyfriend what your going through. If He loves you he would understand.
I need relationship advice... Please help...?
I was in a relationship for five years, I finally ended it a month ago. Now my real problem is that i don't make contact with my ex boyfriend nor do i feel the need to. Is this healty?I need relationship advice... Please help...?
Yep. Totally normal. Why would you want to make yourself upset by having contact with him? You are absolutely doing the right thing, and following your emotions. Most people are so hung up when they break up with someone that they pine and make fools of themselves -- congratulations for getting over it so well.
You made a clean break. Some things aren't meant to last. You did the right thing.
Don't feel bad for not feeling the need to spend time with your ex. I don't. Move on. Go meet someone else.
Best wishes.I need relationship advice... Please help...?
Yes. That means you did the right thing by breaking up.
It is healthy as long as you move on with your life and happy with yourself...Unless you do not know what you wwant...
Yes it is healthy! if you dont want to have contact with him anymore, than u dont have to, consider yourself lucky...
um isnt that the whole idea of breaking up?
Yep. Totally normal. Why would you want to make yourself upset by having contact with him? You are absolutely doing the right thing, and following your emotions. Most people are so hung up when they break up with someone that they pine and make fools of themselves -- congratulations for getting over it so well.
You made a clean break. Some things aren't meant to last. You did the right thing.
Don't feel bad for not feeling the need to spend time with your ex. I don't. Move on. Go meet someone else.
Best wishes.I need relationship advice... Please help...?
Yes. That means you did the right thing by breaking up.
It is healthy as long as you move on with your life and happy with yourself...Unless you do not know what you wwant...
Yes it is healthy! if you dont want to have contact with him anymore, than u dont have to, consider yourself lucky...
um isnt that the whole idea of breaking up?
Some relationship advice please?
So me and my boyfriend have been on and off for fourth months now. We keep breaking up, but I still love him even through the breakups. But lately I just feel like I lost him. The feelings aren't as strong, and I'm just really upset. I don't think that I can go on without him, but at the same time I don't know how to fix it. I broke up with him about five times and he broke up with me once. I think I am bipolar, and he thinks so too. So should we breakup, or work things out? I need help. Please,Some relationship advice please?
Breakup. If you keep doing it over and over and over again then obviously something isn't right in your relationship.Some relationship advice please?
Hi,
Great question. I think the answer is NOT to break up, but maybe to study the facts about Bipolar between you, and if you think you've got it - get yourself checked out, and if confirmed, then you both have to learn to handle it. Hey - some of the world's most famour people have this Bipolar stuff...read on...
To cut to the chase, BIPOLAR (as you might already suspect) means “two poles” and is simply the new “in” word for Manic Depression where a person cycles between “very big highs” (mania) at one end of the ‘pole’ and “very low Lows” (depression) at the other end of the ‘pole, which is a far wider range than most other peoples - and it lasts for more than a couple of weeks.
Many famous and highly intelligent people have/had manic depression including Sir Winston Churchill, Stephen Fry, Carrie Fisher, Spike Milligan, Ben Stiller, DMX and many others. Managed properly, it can be lived with, and in fact because the “mania” (the highs) are so exhilarating, most manic depressives wouldn’t swap their manic depression for being normal. There are three treatments for Bipolar, and only one of them involves antidepressant drugs.
I've been in fairly hefty senior management positions for around 4 decades and have had up to 500 staff under me at times. I’ve had to deal frequently with many people suffering Depression, so know a little about what you are going through. Depression is far more common than most people think because most people either don't recognise it or hide it. In fact, I think the stats show that up to one-in-five people suffer from Depression, all over the world. It's good that you're getting it out in the open and seeking advice. Just be careful of the myths and here-say, though. A lot of people don’t know what they’re talking about and just seem to make things up as they go along.
Nowadays, I produce videos, and last year made a 35-minute DVD presented by a top UK Consultant Psychiatrist, Dr Darryl Britto, who is a personal friend of mine, and who wanted to squash all the myths about depression, because he felt that very few people thoroughly understood what it is all about. In the DVD he includes an explanation of the three main treatments available. It's purposely in simple layperson's language and aimed at 4 categories of people.
1) Those with Depression,
2) Those who think they may have Depression,
3) Friends and family of those with Depression, and
4) People training in the healthcare sector.
If interested, you can see a FREE PREVIEW on YouTube at http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Ce1viJ7zqC…
I also have a Blog at http://business-sage.blogspot.com which has heaps and heaps of useful FREE ADVICE about enhancing your lot in life, which you might be interested in. (Some of it is guaranteed to put a smile on your face.)
Also I’ve include some web links below, many of which are professional bodies connected to Bipolar and Depression with stacks of free information.
I sincerely hope this information might help you, and that I haven’t given you too much text here – but I felt it important to lever you away from (sometimes) harmful here-say, gossip and myths. People suffering Depression are not alone, you know. Depression is treatable in the majority of cases and it's truly not as bad as people think it is. Armed with the FACTS of what Depression is all about, makes it ten times more easy to handle.
Good luck %26amp; Cheers
John E
Breakup. If you keep doing it over and over and over again then obviously something isn't right in your relationship.Some relationship advice please?
Hi,
Great question. I think the answer is NOT to break up, but maybe to study the facts about Bipolar between you, and if you think you've got it - get yourself checked out, and if confirmed, then you both have to learn to handle it. Hey - some of the world's most famour people have this Bipolar stuff...read on...
To cut to the chase, BIPOLAR (as you might already suspect) means “two poles” and is simply the new “in” word for Manic Depression where a person cycles between “very big highs” (mania) at one end of the ‘pole’ and “very low Lows” (depression) at the other end of the ‘pole, which is a far wider range than most other peoples - and it lasts for more than a couple of weeks.
Many famous and highly intelligent people have/had manic depression including Sir Winston Churchill, Stephen Fry, Carrie Fisher, Spike Milligan, Ben Stiller, DMX and many others. Managed properly, it can be lived with, and in fact because the “mania” (the highs) are so exhilarating, most manic depressives wouldn’t swap their manic depression for being normal. There are three treatments for Bipolar, and only one of them involves antidepressant drugs.
I've been in fairly hefty senior management positions for around 4 decades and have had up to 500 staff under me at times. I’ve had to deal frequently with many people suffering Depression, so know a little about what you are going through. Depression is far more common than most people think because most people either don't recognise it or hide it. In fact, I think the stats show that up to one-in-five people suffer from Depression, all over the world. It's good that you're getting it out in the open and seeking advice. Just be careful of the myths and here-say, though. A lot of people don’t know what they’re talking about and just seem to make things up as they go along.
Nowadays, I produce videos, and last year made a 35-minute DVD presented by a top UK Consultant Psychiatrist, Dr Darryl Britto, who is a personal friend of mine, and who wanted to squash all the myths about depression, because he felt that very few people thoroughly understood what it is all about. In the DVD he includes an explanation of the three main treatments available. It's purposely in simple layperson's language and aimed at 4 categories of people.
1) Those with Depression,
2) Those who think they may have Depression,
3) Friends and family of those with Depression, and
4) People training in the healthcare sector.
If interested, you can see a FREE PREVIEW on YouTube at http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Ce1viJ7zqC…
I also have a Blog at http://business-sage.blogspot.com which has heaps and heaps of useful FREE ADVICE about enhancing your lot in life, which you might be interested in. (Some of it is guaranteed to put a smile on your face.)
Also I’ve include some web links below, many of which are professional bodies connected to Bipolar and Depression with stacks of free information.
I sincerely hope this information might help you, and that I haven’t given you too much text here – but I felt it important to lever you away from (sometimes) harmful here-say, gossip and myths. People suffering Depression are not alone, you know. Depression is treatable in the majority of cases and it's truly not as bad as people think it is. Armed with the FACTS of what Depression is all about, makes it ten times more easy to handle.
Good luck %26amp; Cheers
John E
Relationship advice 101
ok my cousin told my other friends named kris w. tht shes jealous of me... and she went out with this one guy named kris S. and they broke up likeee 3 months ago. well he likes me and he has no feelings for her.. and he wants to go out with me. but shes a pissy person so should i go out with himRelationship advice 101
yeah, if u like the guy just explain it to her, but even if she gets mad, she cant control who you dateRelationship advice 101
well, i most certainly wouldn't want to be with a person who went out with someone they didn't have feelings for. I suggest you make sure this guy isn't a player. And it might be a tad bit awkward between you and your cousin at family parties, get-togethers, etc. If you want to be nice towards your cousin and respect family first: then no, do not go out with him. But if you don't mind your cousin not feeling the love: then go out with him. But remember...just remember just cause you get with him doesn't mean you're going to marry him.
He's just another boy. Shes your cousin.
Think about it---no lie.
XoXo,
- %26lt;3
well depends. do you really really like him? or are you just doing it to spite your cousin? she might come at you with oh now you're getting my sloppy seconds type of things, and it doesn't seem very good on his part that he went for your cousin (regardless of why) and is now coming after you, my opinion move on from this guy and stay away from your jelous cousin : )))
i would say thats a no no just because its family and friends involved and no matter how much you like a guy thats never the right pah to take please believe me ive made that mistake and lost my best friend to some guy who i dated for a month and was cheating on me.
i think you should do what makes you happy instead of worrying about what other ppl think. if you like him go for him your cousin is just going to have to live with it.
definately.
all is fair in love and war -xx
Why are you scared of her?...go out with who you like.
yea go out with him!
Who cares what she thinks!maybelline
yeah, if u like the guy just explain it to her, but even if she gets mad, she cant control who you dateRelationship advice 101
well, i most certainly wouldn't want to be with a person who went out with someone they didn't have feelings for. I suggest you make sure this guy isn't a player. And it might be a tad bit awkward between you and your cousin at family parties, get-togethers, etc. If you want to be nice towards your cousin and respect family first: then no, do not go out with him. But if you don't mind your cousin not feeling the love: then go out with him. But remember...just remember just cause you get with him doesn't mean you're going to marry him.
He's just another boy. Shes your cousin.
Think about it---no lie.
XoXo,
- %26lt;3
well depends. do you really really like him? or are you just doing it to spite your cousin? she might come at you with oh now you're getting my sloppy seconds type of things, and it doesn't seem very good on his part that he went for your cousin (regardless of why) and is now coming after you, my opinion move on from this guy and stay away from your jelous cousin : )))
i would say thats a no no just because its family and friends involved and no matter how much you like a guy thats never the right pah to take please believe me ive made that mistake and lost my best friend to some guy who i dated for a month and was cheating on me.
i think you should do what makes you happy instead of worrying about what other ppl think. if you like him go for him your cousin is just going to have to live with it.
definately.
all is fair in love and war -xx
Why are you scared of her?...go out with who you like.
yea go out with him!
Who cares what she thinks!
Relationship advice please?
ok, so this boy, a close friend of mine confessed he liked me, and i didn't really know what to say back, then later on i told him i liked him as a friend, and now he's not talking to me. is this normal? will he hate me now? cause i really like him as a friend....Relationship advice please?
He's just kinda sad you don't like him back.......especially when a DUDE confesses to a CHICK no less man.Relationship advice please?
hes proably just upset because you dont like him like that its normal
he pretty much feels rejected hes proably upset Im sure he wont hate you your his freind
He's just kinda sad you don't like him back.......especially when a DUDE confesses to a CHICK no less man.Relationship advice please?
hes proably just upset because you dont like him like that its normal
he pretty much feels rejected hes proably upset Im sure he wont hate you your his freind
Relationship advice?!?!?
Okay so there's this boy and I like him a lot. We started texting and he said he likes me a lot too. He said ';I'm all yours'; and I thought that meant we were together? But today while we were hanging out at the mall, my friend ( who is a guy and one of his friends too) texted the boy I like and askednhim, and he denied it... So I texted him and asked him wtf and he goes '; I never said anything about us being together'; and he goes '; I want to get to know you better before we go out'; so my question is, should I wait for him and me to work out or should I just let him go and move on?Relationship advice?!?!?
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Check out PassionsForum.com
It's a site for asking questions about relationships and other people on the site will give you their feedback and you can talk back... I feel like its better coverage than getting random answers on here because you can reply to them and have a full conversation about what your problem is.
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